Hello,
I am 21 yrs old with uncut penis, and phimosis. I am confused about what to do here, I'm thinking about circumcision, but also wondering if there is a way to "stretch" the foreskin or anything else to do without having to see a doctor. Being uncut (not the norm in vegas) and having phimosis makes it very hard to talk to women, and I'm a pretty good-looking guy so women all the time are approaching me and when I never "do anything" with them, my friends are all over me with comments like "whats wrong dude, are you gay or something?" etc. Does anyone else have or have had this problem? It's too akward to talk to my family or friends about this, so any comments/suggestions are appreciated...
I am really surprised to hear that being foreskinned is not the norm in Vegas. Nevada has the lowest rate of circumcision in the United States, but that may be true only of young boys.
It is not necessary to have a foreskin that will retract. Some men live their entire lives with a non-retractable foreskin. They can masturbate, have penetrative sex, get married, and father children with a foreskin that does not retract. Some believe that a penis with a non-retractile foreskin has more sensation and that sex is better. You just need to see that your partner is well lubricated before you attempt penetration. You may need to add some personal lubricant if she does not lubricate.
If you want your foreskin to be retractable, then the goal is to have a foreskin that glides smoothly back and forth so as to provide maximum pleasure.
When your penis is erect, gently pull your foreskin back against the head of the penis. As the head attempts to pass through the foreskin it will stretch the skin a little. Do this every day and in a few weeks or months your foreskin will widen and you will be able to retract your foreskin. Do NOT force retraction. Do NOT cause yourself pain.
It works by tissue expansion. Stretching skin induces mitosis which is a word that means division of cells. New skin cells are formed and the skin expands but it takes some time. The increase in size is permanent. Be patient and give mitosis time to work.
The important thing is to put the skin under tension every day so that it will grow wider.
Search the Internet for:
How to Fix Phimosis and Tight Foreskins, Solutions That Work
and you will find the information and support you need.
It is never necessary to be circumcised. Non-retractile foreskin is not a reason to get a circumcision. Circumcision is a very destructive, damaging, and harmful operation. Furthermore, it is an ELECTIVE operation that in only done with the consent of the patient.
Check these websites for more information:
Fixing tight foreskins and phimosis
no circumcision: Stretching To Fix Tight Foreskin (Phimosis)
The Development of Retractile Foreskin in the Child and Adolescent
Phimosis – genitalwholeness
Tissue expansion - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
You really want to avoid circumcision.