agilley007: Sorry about all the bad grammer that is the way I was raised so I will try to do a better job.
UNDERAGE GUYS ARE ALL OVER THIS SITE
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well i think it is ok for minors to come on here as long as they are not members that have access to the gallery. i don't it would be appropriate for a minor to see some of the photos in members' gallery area. i think maybe there can be a special area set aside for minors on this forum who have issues with penis size and also us adults to have access to that area to support them.
It's not okay now as Rob E., the site's owner, has made it perfectly clear they are an unwelcome presence here. Everything else said before this post is a little irrelevant now, as this thread is 3 years old and refers to the state of the site as it was back then, a long time ago and under different ownership.
For what it's worth let me say that my first sexual experience came as the friendship of two l5 year olds became more than friendship and the sex in that relationship was fantastic--we learned all by ourselves since we would have blown our cover had we dared or wanted any advice or visual aids. The friend is still my best friend in the world. We both married and are very faithful husbands. When we see each other these days we find that the love we shared is still there and we are forever grateful that we had the space, the time, the opportunity, the emotional readiness, and the needed privacy to explore a part of our sexuality we had not even given thought to before.
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LORDDUZI, you may be right about keeping under age people out of this site. The laws are quite clear. I agree. But, I think too that we may be only touching the surface of a real problem. And this "but" is a really big one; doesn't it also reveal how far from being honest we are when we talk about "protecting the young?"
I had no adults handy to me as a l5 year old coming to grips with my emerging sexuality. I suspect that most adults in my town would have simply told me to get lost and wait until I had grown up. My father was a good man but no help in that area. From my mother I got plenty of attention and I think she was very successful in imparting certain general principles of good conduct, She knew, and I knew, that she was really talking about me and the girls and aside from the understood caution against getting any girl pregnant she made clear that a healthy respect for women and girls was no threat to my male sexuality. I appreciated the fact that filthy pictures and crude stories were not really a threat to anyone as bright as she always assured me I was. My mother despite the quaint language in which her talk traded was very supportive of my growing into my emerging sexuality; she assured me that I only had to be my honest self. Little did she know how honest with myself and how creative I could be. She did not ever find out about my first homosexual love affair with a boy she liked very much, but I think she would not have been surprised that my teen lover and I emerged from our two years of homosexual bonding essentially unscathed and with a very healthy attitude toward sex. She, bless her, was years ahead on that.
As I have said elsewhere, my teenaged lover and I didn't then and wouldn't now qualify as "consenting adults" but only because of our age. We still are best friends and dearly love each other though we are no longer lovers. We admit that our two years as close friends and lovers were among the best years of our lives.
I do not presume to say that ours is a path for today's teen boys. But I do think we will have to do a lot of thinking, much of it "outside the box" to get a proper handle on how to assist young people toward healthy growth into awareness and appreciation for their wonderful complex sexuality.
I had no adults handy to me as a l5 year old coming to grips with my emerging sexuality. I suspect that most adults in my town would have simply told me to get lost and wait until I had grown up. My father was a good man but no help in that area. From my mother I got plenty of attention and I think she was very successful in imparting certain general principles of good conduct, She knew, and I knew, that she was really talking about me and the girls and aside from the understood caution against getting any girl pregnant she made clear that a healthy respect for women and girls was no threat to my male sexuality. I appreciated the fact that filthy pictures and crude stories were not really a threat to anyone as bright as she always assured me I was. My mother despite the quaint language in which her talk traded was very supportive of my growing into my emerging sexuality; she assured me that I only had to be my honest self. Little did she know how honest with myself and how creative I could be. She did not ever find out about my first homosexual love affair with a boy she liked very much, but I think she would not have been surprised that my teen lover and I emerged from our two years of homosexual bonding essentially unscathed and with a very healthy attitude toward sex. She, bless her, was years ahead on that.
As I have said elsewhere, my teenaged lover and I didn't then and wouldn't now qualify as "consenting adults" but only because of our age. We still are best friends and dearly love each other though we are no longer lovers. We admit that our two years as close friends and lovers were among the best years of our lives.
I do not presume to say that ours is a path for today's teen boys. But I do think we will have to do a lot of thinking, much of it "outside the box" to get a proper handle on how to assist young people toward healthy growth into awareness and appreciation for their wonderful complex sexuality.
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sorry...just a firm believer that this site is adult only. i thought it was i guess. there is no time that a minor should be having a conversation with a stranger about sex. this rule broken, opens up the site to scrutiny by authorites...and one persons actions may effect many people. don't justify the reasons. most people have good intentions but it only takes a few to move the line. good heavens...Date Line runs these stories week after week and still people don't get it.
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AMEN.
This site would have saved my sanity if I had had something like it when I was 14-15. I was SO worried about sex in general, and to a fairly large extent penis size in particular.
I remember going to the library to medical dictionaries and such in a futile attempt to get a more realistic idea of what "normal" penis size was, how women/girls felt about it, etc.
I suppose it would also have helped just to see the wide range of penis sizes that you can now see online. Back in the 70s, you couldn't possibly have access to this visual information until you were 18, and then it was ridiculously expensive to see a wide range. Porn tended to show only the very large, so that would make your self-image even worse. Today you can find many average-sized penis images and some very small.
But more importantly, a forum like this where you can talk about different implications surrounding size brings it all into a more realistic perspective than what an insecure 14-year-old's imagination would run with. I think the potential for this and other forums like this to give young people a way of working out their concerns is tremendously healthy. And that means interacting with both their own age and those with a lot more experience who can offer advice anonymously, without worrying about incurring legal problems that would more likely be a risk if in-person contact (as opposed to online) were made.
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...always something to be mindful and aware of....laws vary from state to state...country to country.
Be Safe, Be Careful, & Enjoy (with people who are of age):wink:
Whopper-lee..much over 21:biggrin1:
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Another thing is that the rules of age are only subject to law and really don't pay much part in the maturity and development of a single person.
It's unfair for legal users to be "used" by an underage user because they face possible prosecution. Some older people may also find the fact there young uncomfortable in a sexual inviroment without the idea of law in mind. As an 18 year old I try and tread carefully because I've been a legal user for less then a year. You could come on this site the day you turn 18 legally but you wont be much of a different person from the previous day.
It's unfair for legal users to be "used" by an underage user because they face possible prosecution. Some older people may also find the fact there young uncomfortable in a sexual inviroment without the idea of law in mind. As an 18 year old I try and tread carefully because I've been a legal user for less then a year. You could come on this site the day you turn 18 legally but you wont be much of a different person from the previous day.