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I feel kinda underdevoloped as far as my flacid dick goes. Im only about 5.5 hard but like maybe an inch flacid. Im 20 and about 6'4 with big hands and big feet. I was at a wrestling tournament over the weekend where most guys from one team weighed in naked and all were hung. I didnt shower with my team after cause im embarassed about being small i know one guy is like 5in soft and most of them hang nice like 4in. I hate not showing when im soft.
 

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Fact is you have what you have and you need to learn to accept it as the wonderful treasure it is. I have been with guys similar to you in size--complete wiith your growing trend and some have been in your height range. It's nothing to be ashamed of. If the penis function s in all the necessary ways--get's hard, can satisfy, can ejaculate--then why worry about it.

What might help you out is a trip to a naturist resort or a nude beach. Men of all sizes from super small to gargantuan big show up there. Fat and skinny, tall and short, short and skinny with tiny penis, short and skinny with a big penis, tall and skinny with a huge thick long penis and the tall and skinny with a little nibbler head barely showing, short fat men with stomachs that hide their smaller penis, and short fat men with a good 5 inches or more showing--and they're still soft! Tall fat men with a big one, and tall fat men with a small one. I;ve had evey possible combination out there and they;'re all good.

So be proud of your body as it is, get out there and show it off in the weigh-in and then in the showers. So some other man has a bigger penis, that don't mean he knows how to use it.
 

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I know it is easy for someone else to say "you have what you have so live with it".
Not everyone is a shower nor hung but no one is just bout their cock either. When erect you are average and if it works well be happy.
Others in the locker room may very well wish they were as tall as you or had larger hands or looked like you or have your body.
You will miss out if you let soft size determine what you do after a match.
Stand proud and shower with the rest and stop comparing only one aspect of you with the other guys..............
 

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I can just agree with onslow and kurios. Mine is bigger than yours (soft and hard) but I guess your body looks much better than mine.
For some reason you only see guys with a bigger dick than yours, but really, lots of men have your size or smaller.
I know how you feel. After having worked out for 1,5 hours my penis shrinks to a size of 1 inch. It takes quite some time before it's the normal soft size. With that tiny dick I walk through the locker room and the shower area. Years ago I decided to take off my towel and just walk naked with the towel in my hand. I had just one thought: this is me too, like it or not, I can't change it.
Never let the thought about what others will think of your dick rule your life.
 

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Well, you can stretch(jelq) your dick half hour a day and will see the difference after a year !!!
 

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I feel kinda underdevoloped as far as my flacid dick goes. Im only about 5.5 hard but like maybe an inch flacid. Im 20 and about 6'4 with big hands and big feet. I was at a wrestling tournament over the weekend where most guys from one team weighed in naked and all were hung. I didnt shower with my team after cause im embarassed about being small i know one guy is like 5in soft and most of them hang nice like 4in. I hate not showing when im soft.

It's tough for your dick look big to others when you yourself are a big guy. I'm 6' tall. and my dick is above average sized. I think it looks kind of small when it's limp, even though it's about 4-5" long at that time. A lot of guys feel this way, even if they are above average in size.

If you want to increase the size of your flaccid dick, you should look into PE (penis exercises). This can not only increase your erect size, but substantially increase you size when your flaccid. Send me a private message if you want more info, or look in the thread on LPSG about "making it bigger". I've been doing PE for awhile now. My results are in my gallery.

Above all else. Learn to love your dick (and yourself). Feel comfortable with what you have and be happy with it. It's the only dick you'll ever have.
 

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I feel kinda underdevoloped as far as my flacid dick goes. Im only about 5.5 hard but like maybe an inch flacid. Im 20 and about 6'4 with big hands and big feet. I was at a wrestling tournament over the weekend where most guys from one team weighed in naked and all were hung. I didnt shower with my team after cause im embarassed about being small i know one guy is like 5in soft and most of them hang nice like 4in. I hate not showing when im soft.

Cruelty is a fact of life. When I was in high school I was smaller than average I didnt get big until about last year I had a growth spurt.

When I was on the football team I always got made fun of for being smaller than some of the guys on the team then Id always just remember no matter how small I am theres gotta be someone smaller out there lol.

And not all guys are hung its just another notion people have.
 

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I feel kinda underdevoloped as far as my flacid dick goes. Im only about 5.5 hard but like maybe an inch flacid. Im 20 and about 6'4 with big hands and big feet. I was at a wrestling tournament over the weekend where most guys from one team weighed in naked and all were hung. I didnt shower with my team after cause im embarassed about being small i know one guy is like 5in soft and most of them hang nice like 4in. I hate not showing when im soft.

biyoung:
Pls. allow me to share this note with you... being much older than you.
Doesn't it appear many times, that mother nature can be so unjust to us.
Here I'm embrassed about my penis hanging 7-8 inches flaccid, (it only grows to 10.5 -11" inches, when I can get it hard) being 5' 10" tall, size 13-14 shoes & boots... think I don't feel odd and get talked about.However, there are some medical reasons for this, with my ACTH, pituitary gland, and thyroid growth ocurring I was younger, which I now continue to still deal with medically...too much to go into in this note...much like also my uncle, my 1st. cousin, and one of my sons who also, have these med. problems.
Pls. feel not embrassed. I'm willing to say, if you have a good working penis that grows to 5.5 inches consider yourself, "a grower & not a shower" until the time is right during sexually encounters (be it with males or females).
As my doctor said to me, a penis is for women; while generally, a huge hangin' dong gets the attention, image & preception that men have.
Personally, I rather have a woman to admire my gentials as average(like yours) and but great in bed; as opposed to having the fellows joking and always making off-the-wall comments being hung like a horse and other names which is even more embrassing in some situations other then in the locker-room and showers. Trust me man, be proud of what you have, as some other LPSG members will & have advised you.
Wanta trade with me!:wink:

Be Safe, Be Careful, & Enjoy!
Whopper-lee
 

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I am average myself. We just have to accept ourselves as we are. That is the most important thing...be happy with who we are. Flaccid size doesn't matter anyway. Only erect size matters and you are average. I am not a shower either and it bothers me sometimes, but it really doesn't matter.
Be proud of who you are and what you have. There is more to a man than just a penis anyway, so don't let it decide how you act or feel.
 

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Yes, I would have to say the same things the other guys have said here too. When I was in my teens, I was just under 7 inches when hard, but in the ensuing years, I have actually shrunk in the size department, so I'm just basically a little below average at about 5 inches now. The main reason is because of medical problems, namely being a type-2 diabetic. Even with Cialis or Viagra, I don't get fully hard and length like what I was in my teens, but at least I do get hard enough for sex.
 

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You cant help who you are. - Get in the naked, and you'll not look back.

I know how you feel though:(