Hi everyone. I’ve always had a certain fetish which I don’t believe comes under a category. When it happens to me in real life, it is such a turn on. And when I find moments that adhere to it in porn, it is the best thing ever. However, I can experience it but searching for it in porn is something I rarely can find. Note - I define myself as a gay man but I’m certainly on the asexual side of things. I rarely have sex unless drunk really (both with men and women actually) and never had or wanted a relationship.
I like sex and porn when it is detached to sex and attraction. An example of it in my personal life is as follows. I stayed with my friend (straight man) once for 5 nights. On the last night, after a day of heavy drinking, we went back to his. We mentioned that we hadn’t touched ourselves since we shared the room. So we just went ahead, watched porn and jacked off. It was very casual, and nice; we didn’t touch each other and watch each other but certainly noticed each other and laughed a lot.
In porn, I can think of three examples. One is behind the scenes of Playboy Foursome. Two couples are fooling around but one guy just can’t stay hard. He just ends up with a semi chatting to a girl and making jokes with her while the other couple just go to down. It just really turns me on to watch him just naked chatting in this sexual situation. Another example is a video where a man is wanking, a man knocks on the door to fix his radiator and notices what he was doing. The fixer man makes a joke about what he was doing, tells him to carry on, he ignores him whilst the man finishes his business. Finally, I bought this DVD years ago which involved regular couples being interviewed about sex by a sex therapist, then being filmed trying out the advice then being interviewed about it afterwards. They were very normal people and as it was sort of therapy sex was very much not the main focus.
Any ideas? Or even similar videos? Have I invented a new porn category or after 15 years of being sexual I’ve just never known what I am? I’d love to know your thoughts!
I like sex and porn when it is detached to sex and attraction. An example of it in my personal life is as follows. I stayed with my friend (straight man) once for 5 nights. On the last night, after a day of heavy drinking, we went back to his. We mentioned that we hadn’t touched ourselves since we shared the room. So we just went ahead, watched porn and jacked off. It was very casual, and nice; we didn’t touch each other and watch each other but certainly noticed each other and laughed a lot.
In porn, I can think of three examples. One is behind the scenes of Playboy Foursome. Two couples are fooling around but one guy just can’t stay hard. He just ends up with a semi chatting to a girl and making jokes with her while the other couple just go to down. It just really turns me on to watch him just naked chatting in this sexual situation. Another example is a video where a man is wanking, a man knocks on the door to fix his radiator and notices what he was doing. The fixer man makes a joke about what he was doing, tells him to carry on, he ignores him whilst the man finishes his business. Finally, I bought this DVD years ago which involved regular couples being interviewed about sex by a sex therapist, then being filmed trying out the advice then being interviewed about it afterwards. They were very normal people and as it was sort of therapy sex was very much not the main focus.
Any ideas? Or even similar videos? Have I invented a new porn category or after 15 years of being sexual I’ve just never known what I am? I’d love to know your thoughts!
