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I was hoping to reach out to the ladies of this site, I love my wife so much but it seems as though we are having a sexual disconnect. We go weeks and sometimes over a month without having sex or even making out. When we were first together we had sex daily. I know that things have changed since she had our first baby, but it has been over a year since the birth. And I completely understand that it is hard for a woman to find sexual desire after a baby, but I just feel as though we are losing passion in our relationship and because there is no passion I seek sexual gratification elsewhere-(not cheating, but coming on this site to relieve sexual tension) as you can see by our videos we are great at making love and I feel as though it’s a shame to waste our younger years not having sex. I try to spark romance from time to time By offering to take her out on dates, but with a baby it’s rare that we can find a babysitter, afford to go out for an entire night and pick up the baby, come back home and make love, it’s just not practical, I just miss laying around the house and when a good opportunity presented itself we would go at it. I cant really even start making out with her without her denying me. She does want another baby and wants to start trying soon so I know it’s in her somewhere. Also, she hasn’t necessairly gained weight but she feels awful about how she looks right now and that’s why she says she is never in the mood. But one thing is that I do not want to push her to go to the gym because then I feel like an asshole for doing that She will most likely get upset if I push to hard in that direction. I have offered for us to join a gym that has babysitting but she doesnt want that, we joined a cheaper gym but she doesn’t want to go by herself, also we can’t really go together without finding a babysitter, and that’s hard to do on a conisistent basis. Ladies, do you have any thoughts on how I should go about talking to my wife about this, and also how do I convince my wife to work out on her own more without sounding like a complete and total dick, not for my own satisfaction but because I know it will make her feel better about herself?