I searched for a thread specifically about this but could not find one, just comments in various threads touching on the subject
I am trying to understand the different perspectives of open relationships. Regardless of sexual preference, how comfortable people honestly are and how they deal with issues if they happen. Also, how honest people are about their situation
I have been in different roles of an open relationship- as the partner seeking sex outside, as the partner bringing a third for sex, and as the other woman. Right now I am single and dating but I have a play partner that claims to be in an open relationship. We usually did not have much conversation except for a few minutes between play and we did not ever interact socially without sex until recently. The problem is, I enjoyed spending time with him without sex. We would msg each other with things like I miss fucking you, now I get messages saying I miss you and I reply saying the same because I do. I have no expectations from him and I do not ever think this guy would leave his live in situation. It just hurts that there is someone I have amazing sex with and like as a person, it hurts that I think I have feelings for him
When he would bring up some topics about different things, I would change it and try to keep conversation light, just about the sex. I know he cares about me, he has helped me through a few things. It is just a hard thing to figure out, is it better to leave the situation quietly or tell him how I feel? I knew getting into this that it would not ever be more than sex. The issue- after eight months of the best orgasms I ever had, with someone so nice, it is hard not to develop feelings. PS his cock is perfect too :frown1:
I am trying to understand the different perspectives of open relationships. Regardless of sexual preference, how comfortable people honestly are and how they deal with issues if they happen. Also, how honest people are about their situation
I have been in different roles of an open relationship- as the partner seeking sex outside, as the partner bringing a third for sex, and as the other woman. Right now I am single and dating but I have a play partner that claims to be in an open relationship. We usually did not have much conversation except for a few minutes between play and we did not ever interact socially without sex until recently. The problem is, I enjoyed spending time with him without sex. We would msg each other with things like I miss fucking you, now I get messages saying I miss you and I reply saying the same because I do. I have no expectations from him and I do not ever think this guy would leave his live in situation. It just hurts that there is someone I have amazing sex with and like as a person, it hurts that I think I have feelings for him
When he would bring up some topics about different things, I would change it and try to keep conversation light, just about the sex. I know he cares about me, he has helped me through a few things. It is just a hard thing to figure out, is it better to leave the situation quietly or tell him how I feel? I knew getting into this that it would not ever be more than sex. The issue- after eight months of the best orgasms I ever had, with someone so nice, it is hard not to develop feelings. PS his cock is perfect too :frown1: