That's the second time I've seen someone mention minimizing. Why minimize?
We're big. First and foremost, let's talk about comfort and support. I have no desire to smash it in and make it look tiny. Is it for cosmetic reasons? I just want it not to flop around, or get sat on! At this stage it's just a matter of function.
Ball lifter -- I've never heard of this. I will check it out. Thanks for the suggestion.
Other than "boxers let them swing around, a jock strap holds them in," my father never discussed this type of thing with me, growing up. Like so many of us, I'm learning this later in life.
Last night I went to WalMart and checked out the clearance rack. *LOVE* the clearance rack!!! Got some Starter boxer briefs in size 2xl, for only $7 for 3 pair. 98% cotton, 2% spandex. Right now they're very loose and not very supportive, but I'll wash and shrink them in the dryer, and see what they're like. They do seem quite stretchy, which seems like it'll be nice. If they fit, great...if they don't, I'll wear them for sleeping.
In my experience, anything that is primarily cotton will shrink. And, usually, by just about a full size. So if this holds true, these should end up the right size for me.
If they work, they're a great deal and I'll go back and buy them out!
Boxer briefs...I would never have considered them, a week ago.