Unfinished Orgasm?

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Whenever I jerk off, it feels good, like an orgasm should; however, I always feel like theres something that gets held back. Like I have only a part of a full orgasm, if that makes sense. It's like a feeling at the base of my penis that just wont come. Is that weird? Normal? Anybody know?
 
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Whenever I jerk off, it feels good, like an orgasm should; however, I always feel like theres something that gets held back. Like I have only a part of a full orgasm, if that makes sense. It's like a feeling at the base of my penis that just wont come. Is that weird? Normal? Anybody know?
Do you have any prostate issues? I had that feeling with a bout of prostatitis, though it was more uncomfortable than it sounds for you.
 

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Yep, I know exactly what you are talking about. For me, it happens when my wife and I cum together and she tells me to stop because she can't handle it, yet I am not done, but I did cum something. I give her a few minutes, then I keep going, but it takes a very, very long time to finish my orgasm. At least she cums a dozen times and squirts enough to soak the bed during that time and doesn't make me stop completely.

But I do understand that feeling, like you did have an orgasm, but....it wasn't a full orgasm.
 
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In general, I can get a physically more intense orgasm from jerking off, but it's not as satisfying as releasing inside a pussy.
I tend to be the opposite. I rarely masturbate anymore, as I have sex with my wife a few times a week, but on those rare occasions when I do jerk off it tends to be quick and the orgasm feels good, but not anywhere near as good as most of my orgasms while deep inside my wife's pussy!

When I was single and masturbation was my only sexual outlet, I had many incredibly intense orgasms, usually because I would delay cumming for as long as I could stand it. Those orgasms after 20-30 minutes of varying degrees of stimulation, while watching some porn that got me all worked up, were explosive and caused my body to convulse with each wave and squirt of cum.
I quickly decided to use condoms when masturbating, as then I could just let loose and enjoy my orgasms and not worry about creating a hard to clean up mess.

That said, I'll take cumming deep inside a woman a thousand times over doing it myself, and I have! :p
 
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Whenever I jerk off, it feels good, like an orgasm should; however, I always feel like theres something that gets held back. Like I have only a part of a full orgasm, if that makes sense. It's like a feeling at the base of my penis that just wont come. Is that weird? Normal? Anybody know?

That's interesting. I think the usual view is that once an orgasm/ejaculation is triggered it is a reflex that automatically runs to completion but certainly there can be times when it can fizzle out. For me that has not happened often but when it has I have then found myself really horny again in a much shorter time than normal and the orgasm from round two feels much more intense and complete than the first one.

Removing stimulation around the point of no return seems to make that more likely to happen. I generally avoid doing that: for sex I get a trust in between spurts and masturbating I continue to stoke as I cum but it can occasionally happen anyway.

As an occasional thing I am not worried but if it is every time it may be worth checking for prostatitis.
 
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