When I was still a teenager, my friend and I started doing some playful, kinky stuff. It started with some "wrestling" where he'd pin me down (straddle my chest) in his underwear. He liked pressing his penis on my face. I still remember his balls on my face and this thighs around my face. Then we did some other stuff like me sitting on his face, and even me coming on his face. I never sucked him nor did he suck me. We both grew up. I got married and had kids. He had relationships with other men. Decades later, it remains an unfulfilled fantasy...I so much wish I had sucked his cock. Seeing him now is not possible. So, like a lot of other guys...I really, really want to suck a mans cock but never have. The concerns are the typical ones...catching something, betraying my wife (who is great), and so on. Also it looks like most of the ads are of men like me who want to suck, rather than get sucked. I really want to suck a well hung good looking guy's cock. Nothing out of the ordinary here. The kind of guy I'd want is likely out of my league. Wondering what the best option is.
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His cock was big, yes. Bigger then mine by far. With his underwear on the head was poking out or close to it. I'm guessing 7 inches at least. Can't see him now as he is no longer with us.
He and I were young and even at that age I could tell it was a lot longer than mine. I still remember how it felt with him straddling my face. Yes my wife knows...
Clman, firstly sorry to hear about your friends passing, secondly since your wife know how you feel, would it be feasible to bring another man into your bed for a threesome?
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I agree, if you want to fulfill your fantasy that’s great, but do not betray your partner to do it, it will make you feel worse and even taint the experience
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So many of my fwb have the very same story to an extent. Missed the chance, OR tried and really miss that part of life. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
I share some aspects of your fantasy. Not the sucking cock or stuff like that, but the wrestling aspect. One night my college roommate and I wrestled. At one point, he pulled down my shorts and grabbed me by the balls, at the same time making a few derogatory comments about the size of my cock ("Shi-i-it! Is that all you got? Mine was way bigger at five!"). The memory has always turned me on. A frequent inspiration in jack-off sessions. I've often wondered what it would have been like to have pursued things along those lines when I was single, and there's definitely an element of regret involved.
But I'm married now and the opportunity has passed. I consider myself the happiest man alive and there's no way I'd ever jeopardize that. Oh, well. Luckily, I've fulfilled most of the fantasies in my life anyways, so no real regrets.
But I'm married now and the opportunity has passed. I consider myself the happiest man alive and there's no way I'd ever jeopardize that. Oh, well. Luckily, I've fulfilled most of the fantasies in my life anyways, so no real regrets.
Thank you. You put this really well. The opportunity has passed...and a good marriage is not something to risk. Nor should it be.
