I started at puberty, pre-teen, getting emmense erections, any time of day, and I couldn't control the "outbursts". I was embarrassed if other people were around me because it would definitely show through my pants. At that age didn't know any better that other guys experienced the same thing. I was teased when someone noticed the large buldge in my pants a couple times, so I tried to hide my crotch from view by hold books in front of me until the coast was clear. I was timid to use the locker room showers all through high school because of my erections and possibly getting noticed by the other guys. I realized that at that time that I was a grower, when flaccid it looked very small, but when hard it was 8 inches fully erect. I learned to masturbate early morning to reduce the uncontrollable boners throughout the day, my body was in Spring, awakening as a man. Later, the uncontrollable erections went away, don't even remember when, propably by my mid 20s. Now, I look back at those times now without embarrassment. When I get erections now in a public place such as the locker room showers or at the men's spa, I don't try to hide it. It's just natural, and a very beautiful thing to be a man and own up to it confidently among peers.
Unintentional erections in the locker room: no big deal, or offensive?
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I think I have been in a non school locker room once in my life. Never needed one in my adult life. Great genetics. My weight stays the same, OK 5 pound up or down. My muscle tone even when flabby, would put many people to shame. I am installing a home gym, that I will never use and I have a pool that i may never swim-in , I walk about a mile a day for work, so why would I need or want to go to experience a locker room. You use very big words, sadly 100% of them are on the mark. Whatever my religion is, it is none of your business and your attacking it makes you an even more bigoted , than the big words you strung together.
I have been reading the posting here farrrrrrr longer than you have; and based on the locker room threads and specifically the complaints about the pervs who use them. I can with 100% assuredly say, I am not Homophobic. I am 100% Anti Pervert
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Anti-Pervert, what? You are here in this blog, and it's not pro-creation sex, are you expecting a birth from this?
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I am almost Sorry, I do not consume mind altering substances, they would at least give me some chance of understanding what the heck you are writing about. Trust me if you are trying to impress me with your wit, dude seriously stop, it will never ever happen
@ronin001 & @fratjoc8c ....didn't you ever hear that there isn't any crying in baseball...or locker rooms?
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Excuse me, maam your limited edcuation has kept you ignorant that's why intelligence scares you like an ignorant slut!
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Just FYI, your comma after Excuse me, is in the wrong location for that sentence structure.
Try Excuse me maam; but your >>>>.
Who in Gosh's name would you draw a conclusion, I had a limited education ?
Finally and to complete our interaction, now and forever. Please let us not use insults like the S word, they are offensive and if I remember correctly directly insulting a fellow member is against the TOS. If you ever take a break from JO / trying to hook up postings, you may want to read them
It would be nice if you stopped calling people perverts who don't share your sexual norms - it's quite an insulting and offensive word.
Did you feel like he was too agressive? Did you think he was going to rape you?
Yes, it was too aggressive. No, I didn't think that he would rape me. I have been around guys with hardons in the gym and it was no big deal. There is something about this particular guy that bothers me anyway. Why? I am not sure. Just something.
I wrote last night on one of the other gym shower threads about my first (and pretty much only) experience with a communal shower in high school and an accidental erection. Obviously I know they can happen and I don't find them to be offensive at all, provided the guy in question isn't actively looking to become aroused. If that's the case, I might have a problem with it. But if it isn't the case, and a guy became erect for whatever mindless thoughts are running through his brain and dick at that point, I'd be okay with it. I do think the polite thing to do is try to work on reducing the erection and generally being a little apologetic about it.
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I'm not sure how you can control your thoughts. You can only accept them and let them be.
If you pop a boner, not much you can do about it. Just don't stroke it. All then should be fine.
No truer words.
So long as you don’t play with it, start wagging it at people, or invite a sword fight, I don’t see the issue.
You certainly acted appropriately, so no shame in what you did.
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Yeah, unless you wander into a locker room full of eunuchs or the chemically castrated, the Vegas money is on everyone having gotten hard involuntarily more than once in life — a lot more than once. So, assume a largely sympathetic crowd.
Mabe you both can find a place to jerk off, out of the public area, if it goes there.
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I have been going to various gym for 30 yrs, the most I have seen is a semi.
That said, I think if I guy did get rock hard...if he stood there and waved it about wanting everyone to look then I would say that is totally inappropriate. But if he just got on with getting dressed and was discrete then fine.
That said, I think if I guy did get rock hard...if he stood there and waved it about wanting everyone to look then I would say that is totally inappropriate. But if he just got on with getting dressed and was discrete then fine.
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I have no problem with boners or semis in the locker room. For me, the sights, sounds and smells often induce some kind of response, especially after a work out. I'm no expert in sex hormones or pheromones, but I would imagine there's a lot of things flying around by those lockers and showers, so maybe it's just our bodies responding naturally. If I see a guy towelling down with a nice stiff cock then I admire his confidence and self esteem. And usually my own will respond like for like!
I think the key is in the question. If it really is unintentional, I do not think it's something anyone can get upset about.
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