but i'm having a small issue secretly, with my girlfriend. she doesn't know yet, but i am bothered by the idea of her having had sex with a possibly endowed ex. she had made a couple small remarks in the past, before we started dating, really subtle like i might not get it (either the product of my attraction to big dick solely, or the honest hints of a history). i've also heard through friends of friends that one particular guy she "might have dated" was known as "8 and thick". don't ask how this came up, i just happened to be around old drunk high school friends bullshiting around a keg. we run into the guy from time to time too, despite living in a big city, it seems we don't get too far from him if we go out to a big party. because of this, it's comes to mind more than i'd like it to. Because of the frequency we see him, I wonder sometimes if it's not orchestrated... i've hinted at none of this, I keep cool and reassure myself if I can't just distract with something else. she is short and very proportionate, and from the sex we have had, obviously likes it thick and deep and hard. This can be a huge turn on, but it's also a source of insecurity when I remember what I had heard in the past about him and old friends' encounters with him. Back in high school, I never thought it would come back to bite me in the ass, but i've just about fucked myself with every inch of his dick for listening to the stories. Unfortunately, he dated lots of girls I knew at my school, so I got to hear about it. Also, having been with a couple large men myself, feel especially inadequate for it. I'm a little over 7 inch 5 around. I don't know what to do. Tell her about this? Ask her if it's true? Do I want to know? Do I just ignore it? I am really attracted to her, but feel like talking about this in particular is emasculating somehow. tl;dr ??