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Do you have any unpopular opinions on penises, sex, relationships or all three? If so, please share them.

I think everyone knows my opinions on Smalls. Inferior. Live underground. Etc. I also think sex is kinda overrated.

How about you guys?
 
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I think everyone should make an effort to enjoy sex

I think too many times it is a negative, unnatural, or inappropriate environmental factor that leads to feelings of disinterest or dislike toward sex

There is too much benefit to the individual and the world at large to let sex be villainized or even overlooked

That being said the “sex” we see in society today is so often perverse and socially constructed with power dynamic, status, bigotry, money, and lies
 
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I think everyone should make an effort to enjoy sex

I think too many times it is a negative, unnatural, or inappropriate environmental factor that leads to feelings of disinterest or dislike toward sex

There is too much benefit to the individual and the world at large to let sex be villainized or even overlooked

That being said the “sex” we see in society today is so often perverse and socially constructed with power dynamic, status, bigotry, money, and lies

Enjoying sex is different than thinking sex is the absolute greatest thing you can do with another person. That is how sex is portrayed in society at large IMO and it is that part that I disagree with.

What is an unpopular opinion you have?
 
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I don't know if my opinions about sex are unpopular or not.

But here goes:

If you are looking for a hookup for sex only, it's ok to be shallow and settle for nothing less than what your are looking for.

Grandma's idea of sex is not my idea of sex. Sex is not a dirty word.

Sex and work should never be said in the same sentence, unless your job is sexual in nature.
No matter how attracted I am to a guy, if we work together, then it's a no brainer. Just don't go there with me.

Husbands and wives can experiment with sex and it doesn't have to define their marriage/relationship. Other parties may come and go as long as everyone knows the rules and sticks to them. (I don't see that as cheating. This is an unpopular opinion, I'm pretty sure)

A woman can have sex with a well endowed man, but totally love the physical/emotional/mental/spiritual connections of the guy with the small penis.

That's it for now
 

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I don't know if my opinions about sex are unpopular or not.

But here goes:

If you are looking for a hookup for sex only, it's ok to be shallow and settle for nothing less than what your are looking for.

Grandma's idea of sex is not my idea of sex. Sex is not a dirty word.

Sex and work should never be said in the same sentence, unless your job is sexual in nature.
No matter how attracted I am to a guy, if we work together, then it's a no brainer. Just don't go there with me.

Husbands and wives can experiment with sex and it doesn't have to define their marriage/relationship. Other parties may come and go as long as everyone knows the rules and sticks to them. (I don't see that as cheating. This is an unpopular opinion, I'm pretty sure)

A woman can have sex with a well endowed man, but totally love the physical/emotional/mental/spiritual connections of the guy with the small penis.


That's it for now

Just to be clear, do you mean as in a cuckold type situation or going from a monogamous relationship from a hung stud to a Small?
 

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Just to be clear, do you mean as in a cuckold type situation or going from a monogamous relationship from a hung stud to a Small?
I can only speak from the cuck situation. But IMO I believe it would be possible to go from hung to small in a monogamous situation, depending entirely on the persons involved.
 
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Men subconsciously define big dicks as "anything bigger than themselves" or at least some do. Some men think that they're just average and rate others smaller than them as small, even when they themselves are at ridiculous sizes. Porn has a lot to do with this, along with lies and lack of exposure to other dicks.

Also, no one really understands the true average (Around 5.5 x 4.75 rounded estimate). If you're 8 x 6 and don't think you have one of the biggest dicks out there, you're sadly mistaken.

People are really freaking dumb when it comes to perspectives. Seriously they see a perspective trick and make a guess at size and overestimate like crazy. Then they dig their heels in when explaining no, that wasn't a 12 inch dick. We don't like to be wrong.

Size matters a lot, but more so for MEN then women.

As much as straight people say they are okay with gay people, I still think a sizeable number of them are putting on an act and hiding their hatred like a lot of racist people do. Society has deemed it not okay to hate on people for sexuality anymore and I think they're just repressing their true feelings, like racists and racism.

I also think a sizeable amount of straight people are closer to bisexual or at least aren't 100% heterosexual than anything but because of the implications and stereotypes thrown around for LGBT people, they stick to claiming 100% straight. And those who are 100% straight make a toxic environment of us vs them by claiming anyone even the slightest bit off from "Gold star heterosexual" is all the way Homosexual or firmly Bisexual. Which is odd since they claim nothing is wrong with being LGBT but still feel the need to make a distinct line/wall/category.

I dunno how many of these are unpopular or not. Just kinda ranting opinions off. Sorry if some are ignorant/out of touch. I mean no harm.
 

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My unpopular opinion about sex is that a whole lot of men (notice I didn't say most, or all... Just a whole lot) probably think they want a woman who is as sexually demanding as men generally are portrayed to be. They don't realize that in all reality, they would eventually just end up insecure in their sexual abilities because they would eventually just feel like they couldn't keep up or satisfy her.
 

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My unpopular opinion about sex is that a whole lot of men (notice I didn't say most, or all... Just a whole lot) probably think they want a woman who is as sexually demanding as men generally are portrayed to be. They don't realize that in all reality, they would eventually just end up insecure in their sexual abilities because they would eventually just feel like they couldn't keep up or satisfy her.

I don't think men want a sexually demanding woman. They want a sexually submissive woman who will do what they want, when they want.

But that might just be an unpopular opinion.

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BTW, do you have an answer for that private message I sent you?
 

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I don't think men want a sexually demanding woman. They want a sexually submissive woman who will do what they want, when they want.

But that might just be an unpopular opinion.

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BTW, do you have an answer for that private message I sent you?

If you read some of threads around here, and some of the shit I've heard (irl) men bitching about as far as not being able to find a woman who wants to fuck as often as they want, yeah... There seems to be plenty of guys with that impression.

As I stated though, not most, not all. Just a significant enough number for be to have formed the opinion I did.

I'm putting thought into what you asked...
 
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If you read some of threads around here, and some of the shit I've heard (irl) men bitching about as far as not being able to find a woman who wants to fuck as often as they want, yeah... There seems to be plenty of guys with that impression.

As I stated though, not most, not all. Just a significant enough number for be to have formed the opinion I did.

I'm putting thought into what you asked...

I have no doubt that a lot of men say that they want a woman who wants to fuck a lot. I just don't think they want a demanding woman. But we might be splitting hairs here.
 

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Labels are bad, unless you're a gay guy looking for a "straight" guy for sex. Then it's okay to use the label. If anyone suggests the "straight guy" might actually be bisexual, then suddenly using labels is bad, and you're trying to "preserve straight purity", even if you aren't straight. Pointing out that if you don't like labels then you shouldn't use them yourself earns personal attacks or subtle snark.
 

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I have no doubt that a lot of men say that they want a woman who wants to fuck a lot. I just don't think they want a demanding woman. But we might be splitting hairs here.

Don't put the whole thing on one word which could easily be exchanged for another less impactful adjective. ;)
 

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My unpopular opinion about sex is that a whole lot of men (notice I didn't say most, or all... Just a whole lot) probably think they want a woman who is as sexually demanding as men generally are portrayed to be. They don't realize that in all reality, they would eventually just end up insecure in their sexual abilities because they would eventually just feel like they couldn't keep up or satisfy her.

This is huge. I sometimes dream of the grass is greener situ where she has an appetite like me, but quickly come back to reality with the thought of it becoming an ego thing if I wasn’t up to it

It also is good to put myself in that place and imagine what she is feeling, knowing that I want to have sex more than her, and how that must work on her psyche
 
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I don't think men want a sexually demanding woman. They want a sexually submissive woman who will do what they want, when they want.

But that might just be an unpopular opinion.

Edit
BTW, do you have an answer for that private message I sent you?

I like a woman that wants it as much as I do. Not to submit. That is kind of a turn off, unless it’s a turn on for her. Its not that great if she’s not into it. I get off on her wanting it, and getting it good with me
 

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I think people who make it a point to mention they're on Prep are whores. I don't think using Prep is bad, I think it's smart and good. But I feel too many people take it religiously only so they can bareback often and make it a point to advertise they're into prep barebacking so as long as you both are.
 
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This is huge. I sometimes dream of the grass is greener situ where she has an appetite like me, but quickly come back to reality with the thought of it becoming an ego thing if I wasn’t up to it

It also is good to put myself in that place and imagine what she is feeling, knowing that I want to have sex more than her, and how that must work on her psyche
The times where any she wanted it more than me were enlightening. It isn't fun to say no.
 

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Not sure if this counts or not but I really don't enjoy kissing. Especially french kissing. Another tongue in my mouth makes me feel like puking. I'd much rather head on down and turn my oral attention to her pussy. I think I was traumatized when an ugly woman forced herself on me at a club. I was talking to her to be nice and she shoved her tongue in my mouth out of the blue. As drunk as I was I was still revolted. It pisses me off to this day.
 
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My unpopular opinion

I think that people change and evolve, at one point a couple are composed of two different person that will change and it a miss leading conception to believe that your sexuality will stay the same and not change. In that regard, it's impossible stay in the same relationship forever.

Second, I believe that men have had the status of leading sexual intercourse for too long. If women want to get the leading in there life and in society, they should do it in bed first. Society is a good reflection of what goes in bed. Some women do it, but most still think that men should take her and lead in sex.
 

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The times where any she wanted it more than me were enlightening. It isn't fun to say no.

You won’t catch me saying no, and sadly, that’s a result of masculine conditioning, mostly. I’m always chomping at the bit, but if I was not into it, no one would be the wiser

Heard too many (made up) stories about how “he never fucks me” and watched too many (questionable) male role models, act sexually insatiable