Think Pink:
Thanks. You're right. I'm not a religious person. I don't believe in a divine Jesus. So, essentially, gift-giving & family time is the whole holiday for me. If I keep on feeling cynical about the gift card thing, that's one less thing for me to appreciate about Christmas.
I'll give her a real gift next year & put some thought into it. Or there's this ceramics place in Studio City -- where you can paint your own pitchers or large bowls... picture frames, creative stuff like that, and they fire it up in a kiln. Maybe I can make something that's unique.