AnonyMs: It seems to me that, generally speaking, this board has some expectations of behavior that if a poster disregards either through deliberate thought or ignorance, the board tends to comment on that behavior aberration. Is that how it seems to you? I thought I would start a list of behaviors that seem to be encouraged and welcomed and maybe some of the rest could chime in. 1. Active pedophile behavior of any sort is not tolerated. 2. "Safe sex" is always encouraged and if you choose to relate about behaviors that are not defined as safe sex, be prepared to hear at least one comment about it. 2. Other than those two exceptions, any other personal choice seems to be tolerated and not judged. 3. Posters are to pose their questions and comments in a manner as articulate as possible. This board has many members who are not native English speakers and my hat goes off to you all for the fabulous skills you demonstrate in communicating in English. 4. expectation #3 holds true even if the poster is young. Any other thoughts?