In my last online chat with him: Me: hows the east? (he lives in a town that is a tad east from where I live) Him: nice and warm. progressively toothless Me: good for bj -lol Him: hm...wasn't planning giving any...:-S This is just one of the more recent ones. He has a gf and always had. I am not interested in encouraging this but at the same time I dont want to snub him on this; he is a good friend. I am not sure how to go about this! I'd appreciate any advice!