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Political views? He likes to listen to Rush Limbaugh and the like,



He did have sex with a trans once, but he didn't know she was a trans until after the fact.

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I listen to Rush Limbaugh and what he said has more to do with the 2nd statement quoted above and nothing to do with his polical party. Im as conservative as they get. Im a very sexual person and open minded. Its not Rush that got to him (Rush talks nothing about this sort of thing on his show) it was the outside in penis for the vagina he fucked that one time that has him paranoid. It explains a lot but he shouldnt have been so rude about it.

Oh, that's true. (You do know that I'm very liberal though...) It's more that we are not compatible for a relationship even if he hadn't said those things, due to the differences in our views. He'd be more compatible with a more conservative or libertarian person. I'm not compatible with many people because of my views which come from personal experiences more than anything else.

But yeah, maybe he is a bit paranoid about the trans thing. Who knows? But then, I never thought of myself as being built inside like a postop trans! :eek: I actually thought I was pretty much normal, although deeper than most women.
 

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Being deeper than most women is a good thing. If you are aroused and he didnt feel your cervix thats good, he might have bottomed out in the fornix and assumed you didnt have a cervix at all. He obviously has some issues from his previous sexual encounters, he probably should have kept them to himself. He might have enjoyed himself otherwise, his thoughts of the possibility of having sex with a man messed up his whole ablilities to feel pleasure from it im sure.

I feel bad for him. But if you feel you cant be compatible with him at all based on the other things you've mentioned, then its a good thing to say goodbye forever to this one.
 

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Being deeper than most women is a good thing. If you are aroused and he didnt feel your cervix thats good, he might have bottomed out in the fornix and assumed you didnt have a cervix at all. He obviously has some issues from his previous sexual encounters, he probably should have kept them to himself. He might have enjoyed himself otherwise, his thoughts of the possibility of having sex with a man messed up his whole ablilities to feel pleasure from it im sure.

I feel bad for him. But if you feel you cant be compatible with him at all based on the other things you've mentioned, then its a good thing to say goodbye forever to this one.

Oh, I may run into him again sometime, and I'll stay civil, but nothing more.

What I didn't understand was that he said he'd bottomed out at around 7.5", which I know can't be true because my LTR guy was 7.5" and he NEVER bottomed out. (the guy from last night was supposedly 8", but I don't go around with a tape measure so I don't know... ) I suppose it could be true though with different levels of arousal. I know that I am more aroused by some guys than others, and it's possible that some of his personality came through before hand and that would make me less aroused. (I had a similar problem with The Asshole that I dated for several months, a long time ago, although he had no complaints about me there.)
 

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I was wondering what title to give this thread!

Anyway... I had an encounter with a new guy last night/this morning, and now I have a complex about the one part of my body I didn't have a complex about before! :mad: He said I had the most unusual pussy he'd ever encountered, and was not sexually satisfied (although he still wants to be "friends"). Thing is, on MY side of things I found him satisfying... he was a big guy and I like that, of course...(although I didn't know he was big at the time he started approaching me - as I've said, I don't go around with a tape measure or asking guys on first meeting or anything like that!).

He said I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen, that my texture was unusual (he'd only encountered a similar one once before - on a MtF transsexual! :eek:), and that he didn't feel a cervix at all, but felt that he bottomed out (I don't think he did, but that's how I was perceiving it). He even guessed outright that I had a high testosterone level (which I probably do, since I'm very "hairy" if I don't shave and tweeze all the time, and have a crazy high libido...) - he even asked me if I was born a guy! :eek: Of course, this ties into my other issues with growing up being very nontraditional and all... but I didn't think that'd have anything to do with my anatomical build or anything.

Now, I know he and I would not be compatible for more than just FB/FWB kind of situation - we have the usual problem with political differences that would get in the way of anything more serious. (I run into that a lot).

Thing is, no one has ever said anything like this to me before... I'd been told I was tight before, but he thought I was too tight! It didn't feel that way to me, though.

I have to wonder now, am I going to have a complex now about the one part of my body I was actually pretty satisfied with before? And also, is he just bullshitting me, since no one else has ever commented on any of this?


for him to say you have an unusual pussy is just straight out RUDE! and then he asks if you were born a man?! pssshhhhhh! drop him. there's plenty of other men out there who will be happy that you are the way you are.
 

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Not wanting to cause offence here...

but a 'straight' man who has sex with a trans has no room to talk or put anyone down.

Disregard everything he says and delete his number. Some people exist only to put others down. I knew a girl like that. We had sex once and never spoke again.

thats what I was thinking
 

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I was wondering what title to give this thread! How about I had sex with a jack ass . . .
Anyway... I had an encounter with a new guy last night/this morning, and now I have a complex about the one part of my body I didn't have a complex about before! :mad: That man is a ZERO not a HERO, lose him fast he is not worthy of your time or your pussy. He said I had the most unusual pussy he'd ever encountered, and was not sexually satisfied (although he still wants to be "friends"). Why would he want to be friends with you? Or you with him? Thing is, on MY side of things I found him satisfying... he was a big guy and I like that, of course... Don't be side tracked by his cock the man IS a BIG DICK! :mad:(although I didn't know he was big at the time he started approaching me - as I've said, I don't go around with a tape measure or asking guys on first meeting or anything like that!).
He said I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen, that my texture was unusual (he'd only encountered a similar one once before - on a MtF transsexual! :eek:), and that he didn't feel a cervix at all, but felt that he bottomed out. If he didn't feel your cervix he didn't bottom out, period. Clit size has nothing to do with a male or females ability to enjoy sex! :rolleyes: As for texture how many trannys has he fucked? If thats what he prefers then he needs to stop dating women. (I don't think he did, but that's how I was perceiving it). He even guessed outright that I had a high testosterone level (which I probably do, since I'm very "hairy" if I don't shave and tweeze all the time, and have a crazy high libido...) - he even asked me if I was born a guy! :eek: Of course, this ties into my other issues with growing up being very nontraditional and all... but I didn't think that'd have anything to do with my anatomical build or anything.

Now, I know he and I would not be compatible for more than just FB/FWB kind of situation - we have the usual problem with political differences that would get in the way of anything more serious. (I run into that a lot). Are you nuts?!?:confused::eek::rolleyes: He is not worthy of being a FB or FWB! If you fuck let alone talk to him again you deserve to be in therapy for the next 10 years. :rolleyes::mad:
Thing is, no one has ever said anything like this to me before... I'd been told I was tight before, but he thought I was too tight! It didn't feel that way to me, though.There is no such thing as too tight. :rolleyes::tongue:
I have to wonder now, am I going to have a complex now about the one part of my body I was actually pretty satisfied with before? And also, is he just bullshitting me, since no one else has ever commented on any of this? Don't waste another second thinking about this pitiful little man.
 

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I was wondering what title to give this thread! How about I had sex with a jack ass . . .
Anyway... I had an encounter with a new guy last night/this morning, and now I have a complex about the one part of my body I didn't have a complex about before! :mad: That man is a ZERO not a HERO, lose him fast he is not worthy of your time or your pussy. He said I had the most unusual pussy he'd ever encountered, and was not sexually satisfied (although he still wants to be "friends"). Why would he want to be friends with you? Or you with him? Thing is, on MY side of things I found him satisfying... he was a big guy and I like that, of course... Don't be side tracked by his cock the man IS a BIG DICK! :mad:(although I didn't know he was big at the time he started approaching me - as I've said, I don't go around with a tape measure or asking guys on first meeting or anything like that!).
He said I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen, that my texture was unusual (he'd only encountered a similar one once before - on a MtF transsexual! :eek:), and that he didn't feel a cervix at all, but felt that he bottomed out. If he didn't feel your cervix he didn't bottom out, period. Clit size has nothing to do with a male or females ability to enjoy sex! :rolleyes: As for texture how many trannys has he fucked? If thats what he prefers then he needs to stop dating women. (I don't think he did, but that's how I was perceiving it). He even guessed outright that I had a high testosterone level (which I probably do, since I'm very "hairy" if I don't shave and tweeze all the time, and have a crazy high libido...) - he even asked me if I was born a guy! :eek: Of course, this ties into my other issues with growing up being very nontraditional and all... but I didn't think that'd have anything to do with my anatomical build or anything.

Now, I know he and I would not be compatible for more than just FB/FWB kind of situation - we have the usual problem with political differences that would get in the way of anything more serious. (I run into that a lot). Are you nuts?!?:confused::eek::rolleyes: He is not worthy of being a FB or FWB! If you fuck let alone talk to him again you deserve to be in therapy for the next 10 years. :rolleyes::mad:
Thing is, no one has ever said anything like this to me before... I'd been told I was tight before, but he thought I was too tight! It didn't feel that way to me, though.There is no such thing as too tight. :rolleyes::tongue:
I have to wonder now, am I going to have a complex now about the one part of my body I was actually pretty satisfied with before? And also, is he just bullshitting me, since no one else has ever commented on any of this? Don't waste another second thinking about this pitiful little man.

Oh, the part about political differences and that he would be nothing more than a FB/FWB is if he HADN'T said the rude things.

There seems to be a consensus here that this guy is an asshole. :biggrin1: I agree...
 

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Something I am reading in your responses is disturbing to me.

What this guy said to you wasn't just something to fuck with your head or someting to put aside. He's a jerk, he's got issues and I have to question what your self-esteem is like, when you write that when you see him, you can act civil and be friends. Uhm, no you cannot. At a minimum, a friend has tact and cooth, at a minimum a guy that you are having congress with knows how to respect you. He doesn't find ways to put you down afterward. The guy is a sociopathic jerk and you get nothing in return by being civil to someone who doens't know how to reciprocate.

A person that has polar-opposite political views from you, deserves your civility and friendship. A sociopahtic mysiogonistic asshole does not deserve your friendship. Guys like that need to be with a bitch to feel better about who they are.

Go back to what you wrote "nobody has ever said anything like to me before." That's because even in your experience, normal men, even a FB will still be respectful toward you it should register with you that all of us, men and women alike, were apalled.

You need to tell yourself and tell him, "I'd rather fuck a relative than be friends with someone that thinks that was appropriate behavior."

Respect yourself. You don't have to show you're a better person by being civil, some people don't deserve your acknowlegement.
 

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Oh, the part about political differences and that he would be nothing more than a FB/FWB is if he HADN'T said the rude things.

There seems to be a consensus here that this guy is an asshole. :biggrin1: I agree...

Call me shallow but in my 41 years on the planet I have never had sex with or kissed a Republican. No, I don't ask this on the first or second date. I guess I have just been lucky in only attracting men who are registered independent or democrat. :cool:
 

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Something I am reading in your responses is disturbing to me.

What this guy said to you wasn't just something to fuck with your head or someting to put aside. He's a jerk, he's got issues and I have to question what your self-esteem is like, when you write that when you see him, you can act civil and be friends. Uhm, no you cannot. At a minimum, a friend has tact and cooth, at a minimum a guy that you are having congress with knows how to respect you. He doesn't find ways to put you down afterward. The guy is a sociopathic jerk and you get nothing in return by being civil to someone who doens't know how to reciprocate.

A person that has polar-opposite political views from you, deserves your civility and friendship. A sociopahtic mysiogonistic asshole does not deserve your friendship. Guys like that need to be with a bitch to feel better about who they are.

Go back to what you wrote "nobody has ever said anything like to me before." That's because even in your experience, normal men, even a FB will still be respectful toward you it should register with you that all of us, men and women alike, were apalled.

You need to tell yourself and tell him, "I'd rather fuck a relative than be friends with someone that thinks that was appropriate behavior."

Respect yourself. You don't have to show you're a better person by being civil, some people don't deserve your acknowlegement.

Oh, I meant that I wouldn't be antagonistic to him if I met him at a party or something, not that I would continue to be friends or anything. Although I did have a lapse of judgment and gave him my phone number. :mad: (I will more than likely have the answering machine pick up if he calls, and not return his calls.)

And yes, I have a long history of self esteem issues. It's actually improving somewhat now, but it's a long, slow process.

Call me shallow but in my 41 years on the planet I have never had sex with or kissed a Republican. No, I don't ask this on the first or second date. I guess I have just been lucky in only attracting men who are registered independent or democrat. :cool:

I've not known many liberals. Kind of hard to attract them when you don't know any.
 

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Whatireallywant,

I just read this thread and it really pissed me off. I am about ready to drive to San Antonio and kick this asshole in the butt. I really hope that you don't work with this guy or have to have any contact with him. He deserves an ass whooping for his behavior toward you.

Even though I have never met you in person.....you come across as one of the sweetest people I have ever met over the Internet. There are a lot of dumb ass people out there that think they know everything but they don't know shit. There are also people that just say stupid stuff just to hear theirself talk. I would just advise you to pay this guy no mind and forget his dumb ass comments. There are good people here too.....you just have to overlook the bad.

If you ever need to talk, feel free to contact me offline.
 

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Although I did have a lapse of judgment and gave him my phone number. :mad: (I will more than likely have the answering machine pick up if he calls, and not return his calls.)

And yes, I have a long history of self esteem issues. It's actually improving somewhat now, but it's a long, slow process.
Slow process?

nonsense.

You start by telling yourself I will not be available to any guy that is using me as a doormat because he cannot have what he really wants in life.

You are not the first woman to meet a man with unrealistic expectations, but you can chose to head it off on the onset and extricate yourself before it gets that bad.

Think about it carefully and tell me honestly, what did this guy say and do before you were undressed and vulnerable that wasn't polite or kind or rubbed you the wrong way? What did he do that was selfish or tested a boundary before you got physical.

Start with that.
 

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Whatireallywant,

I just read this thread and it really pissed me off. I am about ready to drive to San Antonio and kick this asshole in the butt. I really hope that you don't work with this guy or have to have any contact with him. He deserves an ass whooping for his behavior toward you.

Even though I have never met you in person.....you come across as one of the sweetest people I have ever met over the Internet. There are a lot of dumb ass people out there that think they know everything but they don't know shit. There are also people that just say stupid stuff just to hear theirself talk. I would just advise you to pay this guy no mind and forget his dumb ass comments. There are good people here too.....you just have to overlook the bad.

If you ever need to talk, feel free to contact me offline.

Thanks! :smile: There are some things I'm not posting here... I posted the primary issue that had to do with me personally, but sometimes I don't think clearly in the heat of the moment, and now upon thinking about some other things this guy said, he is REALLY an asshole!

No, I don't work with him. I don't have sex with people I work with anyway.

It did take me aback a little bit that he guessed that I had a traditionally male personality/interests right off the bat. It's not something that I thought showed. I don't look or dress like a guy.
 

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Hey, can we have a date?
You sound wonderful to me.
I am a man who loves a big bush on a pussy.
My motto is: "for me the lady always comes first."
You would always cumm first in my life.
 

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Thanks! :smile: There are some things I'm not posting here... I posted the primary issue that had to do with me personally, but sometimes I don't think clearly in the heat of the moment, and now upon thinking about some other things this guy said, he is REALLY an asshole!
It did take me aback a little bit that he guessed that I had a traditionally male personality/interests right off the bat. It's not something that I thought showed. I don't look or dress like a guy.

This is what I'm talking about. On the onset he said or did some things that rubbed you the wrong way and you tolerated it. You learned that from someone in your past that it was okay to have associations with someone that said or did negative things to you. That is what you need to pay attention to.

Men that are worth getting to know you, appreciate you for who you are, including the things that make you unique.

You do better to develop friendships with men that describe women as beautiful, not "hot." Or men that are apt to include you in their circle of friends, that are proud to have you around, not dressing you from head to toe about what you look like. The moment you meet someone disrespecting you this way, like it's normal - that should be a redlight to disengage immediately. You can do bad by yourself, you don't need someone else assisting you with this.

And all of us have someone like that in our past, a critical parent, relative, etc. You're an adult now and you can chose to set standards for yourself that you will only befriend people that respect you, first, nevermind if you decide to be intimate with them. Make them prove their worth first, before you start getting curious about whether they are hung or not.

From what I've read on the other threads, if I'm to believe they are telling the truth, men want to know they are satisfying you in other ways, aside of what they bring with their package.

luck.
 

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This is what I'm talking about. On the onset he said or did some things that rubbed you the wrong way and you tolerated it. You learned that from someone in your past that it was okay to have associations with someone that said or did negative things to you. That is what you need to pay attention to.

Men that are worth getting to know you, appreciate you for who you are, including the things that make you unique.

You do better to develop friendships with men that describe women as beautiful, not "hot." Or men that are apt to include you in their circle of friends, that are proud to have you around, not dressing you from head to toe about what you look like. The moment you meet someone disrespecting you this way, like it's normal - that should be a redlight to disengage immediately. You can do bad by yourself, you don't need someone else assisting you with this.

And all of us have someone like that in our past, a critical parent, relative, etc. You're an adult now and you can chose to set standards for yourself that you will only befriend people that respect you, first, nevermind if you decide to be intimate with them. Make them prove their worth first, before you start getting curious about whether they are hung or not.

From what I've read on the other threads, if I'm to believe they are telling the truth, men want to know they are satisfying you in other ways, aside of what they bring with their package.

luck.

It really wasn't at the onset that he said the other things that rubbed me the wrong way. It was around the same time as the comments I mentioned in this thread. Before that I had no clue.

And truthfully, I've been with more guys who were more respectful towards me than not. Like I said, this guy was the first one to make comments like that. Some had said a critical thing about me a time or two, but not to this extent.
 

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It really wasn't at the onset that he said the other things that rubbed me the wrong way. It was around the same time as the comments I mentioned in this thread. Before that I had no clue.

And truthfully, I've been with more guys who were more respectful towards me than not. Like I said, this guy was the first one to make comments like that. Some had said a critical thing about me a time or two, but not to this extent.
Fair enough - but planning to be civil to him, is SOOOOO not necessary.