Unusual Pussy?
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exactly...if not misogynisitc, definitely sociopathic...this isn't your run of the mill, jerk, that cannot see anything beyond a bleach blonde size 2 with big boobs. This guy has ISSUES and you being civil to him isn't going to teach him anything, because he lacks the ability to empathize with OTHER people. If I ran in to him, I would be in a hurry to get somewhere and say "sorry, I'm running late."
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No one has the right to be rude, but they exist...when you don't know someone, you cannot expect a 'hookup' won't treat you civilly, you don't know them, don't know if he respects himself, let alone if they would respect you or your feelings. I think Italian1 is just saying, you're taking some risks here..."it places the lotion on it's skin or it gets the hose again" risks with someone you don't know that well...be careful.Very true... Only the comment about me was more that I was too tight!He fluctuated between thinking I was a trans and thinking I was built like a 14-year-old. Then made comments on my texture or something like that... and he's not the first guy who has commented on my underdeveloped boobs (although he actually said he liked them - but that they were more like that of a 14 year old girl than a 44 year old woman).
And really, even just hooking up for sex doesn't give a person a right to be rude. I don't insult the guys I'm less than satisfied with (and for the record, I haven't had that many "hookups"...) I'm not expecting love or any of that, just physical fun, but am not wanting or expecting to be insulted. But then again, I have a long history of being insulted and bullied (not necessarily by sex partners). It just hasn't happened that much recently.
I was wondering what title to give this thread!
Anyway... I had an encounter with a new guy last night/this morning, and now I have a complex about the one part of my body I didn't have a complex about before!
He said I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen, that my texture was unusual (he'd only encountered a similar one once before - on a MtF transsexual!
Now, I know he and I would not be compatible for more than just FB/FWB kind of situation - we have the usual problem with political differences that would get in the way of anything more serious. (I run into that a lot).
Thing is, no one has ever said anything like this to me before... I'd been told I was tight before, but he thought I was too tight! It didn't feel that way to me, though.
I have to wonder now, am I going to have a complex now about the one part of my body I was actually pretty satisfied with before? And also, is he just bullshitting me, since no one else has ever commented on any of this?
I haven't read what others have said so sorry in advance if this has been said already.
HE IS A PRICK. You would have known if he had bottom out and if he can't tell the difference he is a moron. For myself I know for a fact that I have a large vagina and that my cervix is not so easy to find. He probably never even reached it. And being that you have a small clit is not on common. I have talked to several women with different body types only to find out their all unique. And yeah a few were concern about the size of their clit both large and small.
That fact that he is a rude SOB and needs to learn how to treat his partners with respect and love their bodies for the way they are made, isn't your problem. It pisses me off that he has made you concern and worried. I have my own issues with my looks and my body and know it doesn't take much to question yourself. BE STRONG and starting this thread has helped you see that you are unique and he is a jerk. Like I said I didn't read what everyone else said I just responded to you.
Don't know about rapist, but definitely sexist. He made some sexist statements during that night, often parroting stuff he probably heard listening to Rush Limbaugh.
I actually got with another FB guy last night (one I'd been with previously), and he doesn't insult me at all. It's funny, because I'd thought of calling him this week, and he called me! He's more typical of the big guys I've been with - they usually (except for that one) really enjoy being with me.
And while no, you can't guarantee that a "hookup" will treat you civilly, and you do take your chances, I guess I was a little surprised anyway. Besides, I've also been treated similar with the sexist stuff (but not so much the insults about my body - although there was a little of that) by a guy I had a more conventional relationship with, back in the late 80s. So you can't always even tell there.
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The Donald Hires A Member Of The Flat Earth Society
'$25,000 per day' for Miss 'U.S. American'
Lauren Caitlin Upton, the gorgeous blonde teen from South Carolina who babbles an unknown form of English, was recently hired by Donald Trump's modeling agency. The stunning 5' 9" former beauty contestant will make a fee of $25,000/day for work that presumably does not include speaking.
It is not known if Ms. Upton has an unusual looking pussy but Mr. Trump, who's prenuptial agreements have historically included a warranty expiration date built into them, said in a statement that he wasn't looking for a neurosurgeon or a television contestant when he hired Lauren.
He's just trying to fuck with your head - I'm sad you even had to make this thread because someone you don't know that well who goes out of his way to be a dick doesn't deserve this kind of attention. Don't make him doubt yourself, you know you're fine.
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What a jerk. Move on my dear there are many fish in the sea. Get fishing.:smile:I was wondering what title to give this thread!
Anyway... I had an encounter with a new guy last night/this morning, and now I have a complex about the one part of my body I didn't have a complex about before!
He said I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen, that my texture was unusual (he'd only encountered a similar one once before - on a MtF transsexual!
Now, I know he and I would not be compatible for more than just FB/FWB kind of situation - we have the usual problem with political differences that would get in the way of anything more serious. (I run into that a lot).
Thing is, no one has ever said anything like this to me before... I'd been told I was tight before, but he thought I was too tight! It didn't feel that way to me, though.
I have to wonder now, am I going to have a complex now about the one part of my body I was actually pretty satisfied with before? And also, is he just bullshitting me, since no one else has ever commented on any of this?
While i am not saying i think the guy was right or that she has something wrong with her pussy, i do find it ironic that it is considered perfectly acceptable for women to not have sex with men because they find their cocks to be not exactly perfect size wise or whatever, but when a guy states that he would rather be friends with a girl because he didn't enjoy her pussy, everyone thinks its pure evil. Again i think its rude of him to say it, but i have heard more than one woman on this site get "big upped" for basically expressing the same opinion in reverse.
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It would be perfectly acceptable for him to decide not to have sex with her once he'd seen her pussy, what isn't acceptable is for him to insult her, and I think we'd apply that standard to a woman who insulted a guys dick too.
I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds like your puss was to much for him and made him realize he wasn't big enough. To make himself feel better he put you down. What a total turd ball! I wouldn't even be friends with this loser. He can;t man up and say he didn't perfome well so instead it's your falut...huh? Do yourself a favor and do not talk to him anymore.
Yes, exactly. Although the supposed problem wasn't the way it looked, but the way it felt. Can't exactly refuse before when that's the problem.
And if you read most of our responses to threads, most of us don't accept women insulting a guy's dick. I have never insulted a guy for being small (and yes, I've been with some small guys). My policy is if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all (although I might insult their personalities if they're assholes!).
Actually, according to him, the problem was that I was too tight! That and my "texture" whatever that was supposed to mean. I have no idea. He was actually a big guy, but I'd been with big guys before and had never had any complaints - as a matter of fact, big guys usually really like being with me. And it wasn't that he was too big for me either - I've been with guys a bit bigger. It's just him for some reason.
And to be honest, his personality reminded me too much of the asshole I dated in the late 80s (although even he didn't insult me like this - he was just sexist and an alcoholic).
It's not so much that I'm worried about an asshole here, more that I have self-image problems to begin with... oh well... Funny, later that week I got with a FB I'd been with previously, and now he wants to see me on a weekly basis! Apparently HE has no problem with me! :smile:
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"Actually, according to him, the problem was that I was too tight! That
and my "texture" whatever that was supposed to mean. I have no
idea."
I dated a girl for a while whose pussy felt tighter than average and had an unexpected "texture." She got wet, but still felt "rough" the only way i could describe it, is like sandpaper. I was with her 3 or 4 times over a period of months or a year and every time my penis would get very irritated afterwards. So badly irritated, my skin would peel about a week later.
I never found out the story because I never said a word about her vagina.
I never told her a thing because I didn't want to make her feel bad.
My guess was that it was a PH thing -- or something hormonal. Something was a little off chemically.
BTW, if we had stayed together, i would have tried to find a nice way to tell her.
Sorry you got hurt, you don't deserve that. There are still nice guys out there.
and my "texture" whatever that was supposed to mean. I have no
idea."
I dated a girl for a while whose pussy felt tighter than average and had an unexpected "texture." She got wet, but still felt "rough" the only way i could describe it, is like sandpaper. I was with her 3 or 4 times over a period of months or a year and every time my penis would get very irritated afterwards. So badly irritated, my skin would peel about a week later.
I never found out the story because I never said a word about her vagina.
I never told her a thing because I didn't want to make her feel bad.
My guess was that it was a PH thing -- or something hormonal. Something was a little off chemically.
BTW, if we had stayed together, i would have tried to find a nice way to tell her.
Sorry you got hurt, you don't deserve that. There are still nice guys out there.
i dont know exactly about your situation (whatireallywant), but when im out having a good time and end up taking a girl home, i do my best to be selective as possible (not getting wasted when you go out helps out).
Its not something that i do or have done a bunch of times, because i prefer meeting girls at my university or even friends of others i know. the club scene is fun for the night and there are some good times, girls sometimes are harder than others, it depends on how they feel about you (they determine this pretty instant it seems)
Try doing some pc exercises....? Maybe that will help with sensation (for the man and you) and maybe even appearance...? some thoughts for ya...
Its not something that i do or have done a bunch of times, because i prefer meeting girls at my university or even friends of others i know. the club scene is fun for the night and there are some good times, girls sometimes are harder than others, it depends on how they feel about you (they determine this pretty instant it seems)
Try doing some pc exercises....? Maybe that will help with sensation (for the man and you) and maybe even appearance...? some thoughts for ya...
That sounds like something she would need to see a doctor about. I never thought anything was really "unusual" with me before because no one had ever mentioned anything like that, and I had been in one long-term relationship and several "lasted a few months" situations, both "relationships" and FWB. I don't think they would've continued to be with me if there had been a problem.
From what I've heard, the pc exercises (Kegels) are more to make you a little tighter. I'm already plenty tight as it is; that's not a problem. As far as sensation went, that night it felt fine to me, but it hurt him. He said he'd run into that problem before, so it could just be something with him, actually.
And while it sounds kind of odd about my situations here, I don't make a habit of random hookups. I've had a few "FWB" over the years, one long-term relationship and a couple of "lasted a few months" relationships. However, in that week, I was with 2 guys. The asshole who made these comments, and a FB I had been with previously. The FB now wants to see me on a weekly basis. I don't think if there was a problem there, that he'd be so eager to see me regularly like that.
another thing, if her pussy isnt feeling right, try switching it up and have her give head while u play with her titties. i like to talk to my girl with a tone that makes her go craaazy
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