I'm very surprised to find how gay my gym is. I've always figured in big cities you are bound to find lots of gay guys at the gym but I figured suburbs probably wouldn't have as many, or at least not have as many who are openly displaying it. My gym is in a very blue collar suburb about 25 miles outside boston. I've been shocked at how many guys there are blatantly obvious about staring at my dick, not just a quick glance. A lot of the guys in the steam room and sauna will start to slowly jerk off after a couple minutes of being in there. I've been at this gym for almost a year. Until a week ago this was as far as it went. Guys would slowly jerk off but stop if someone directly looked at them and normally they would stop after a few minutes and leave (maybe bc I wasn't joining in?) This past week though has been ridiculous though. I went Saturday and I walked in the sauna and obviously interupted the 2 guys in there bc they jumped apart as I opened the door and one was fully hard. After a minute of sitting there the guy flat out asked me if I was gay. I hesitated a moment and then said yes. Instantly the guy grabbed my cock and tried to start jerking me off. I stopped him though because I felt too weird about it. After another minute the guy bent over and tried to suck me but I stopped him again. A few minutes later getting out of the shower he grabbed my dick again. Yesterday I went again and this time a different guy was slowly stroking. A different guy walked in and the first guy left for a minute. This second guy started talking to me and told me how hot it was sucking my cock a few weeks ago. I told him I didn't think it was me he was remembering...he said he wouldn't forget a cock like mine. I told him I knew it wasn't me because I had never fooled around with a guy at the gym. Anyway, he started jerking off and the other guy came back in and started to also. The guy who thought he had sucked me tried to suck me but I stopped him. Anyway, sorry to post such a long thing but I guess my point is this: I'm gay and obviously fine with other people being gay too but I don't understand why so many guys assume that just because you are gay it gives them permission to start touching you without permission and will still try a few more times when you say no. If a guy ever did this to a girl she would be having him arrested assault or molestation or whatever the term is for this yet for some reason it's acceptable for guys to do to guys. I enjoy seeing a nice dick in the locker room but I think it is at the very least very distasteful to just assume someone wants you to grab their dick. Any thoughts?