Upset Learning My Buddy is Hung

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I wonder if anyone out there with an average endowment has had a similar experience. I'm 5.75” x 5”... right in the 50th percentile if you believe Mr Average (Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything.). Never had any complaints. My best friend is married but I've seen his flaccid penis and we're about the same size (2.5”). I did notice his cut penis had a skin like a shar pei. Clue! In a recent drunken conversation he admitted his wife says he was the biggest she'd ever had. When I mentioned his flaccid size he said it grows a lot. He'd never measured so I put him up to it...he says 8” properly measured along the top! Now I'm feeling depressed... I love looking at big cocks when they are on someone anonymous but it seems different knowing my buddy who is nearly a copy of me in all other dimensions has over 2” on me. I guess I'm just jealous but it also depresses me. It's not that I'm upset that I don't have a big one (I accept that) but I now know we aren't on par. Weird?
 

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I think it's natural sometimes to judge yourself based on the people around you, like friends. It's like a primitive instinct (not just with dick size, I mean in general), but it's important to remember that it doesn't actually matter, there are always people with more and always people with less, regardless of what's right next to you.

Be happy for your buddy that he's packed. ;)
 

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I had a friend that always thought he was bigger, then he found out and saw just how much bigger I am. He literally was so jealous he stopped being my friend. Stupid. I miss him and I could care less. He was smaller but he was so masculine and I told him it was fine and even tried to build his ego. Do not let this bother you. It is crazy. Be happy for your friend in all things.
 

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I don't think you will get over it. His bigger dick will be the wedge that ends your friendship forever unless you find another way to feel superior, like making more money or having a bigger house or prettier wife.

Not much of a friendship eh? I think it's a big reason why men have such few buddies, competition and ego.

Maybe something bad will happen to him so you can be friends again...
 

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I know people laugh at my towel dance, but when it come to friends or coworkers in the lockerroom... I choose not to know to avoid this. I realize they're probably bigger, but I don't look to see, and hope they aren't looking at me. Either way, I try to avoid anyone getting upset.
 

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Justyouravg. My friend invited me into a 3 way with his wife thinking we were the same size based off our flaccid lengths. He and his wife found out my hard length at the same time. And he is your size. I had a great time with his wife, and so did she. I think he wasn't having as much fun though.
 

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I'm just shy of 6" x 5.25" just about every guy I know is 7.5"+. Hell my own brother is a hair over 7". It does fuck with you, I don't know why but it does seem like I'm the only guy around this area that's average.
 

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In my case it wasn't dick size, it was hair. I just could never grow much. My buddies were all growing treasure trails and then all over their chest, popping out of shirts, and i had like 1 inch of hair over my dick. That's it.
For years, i never compared dick size....i only saw that everybody else was a man --and not me-- no hair.
Years later, when the shaved Euro-look came in, I kind of balanced out. But, we've all got our hang-ups. They're not really logical, they're emotional --all about being left out, and no fault of our own. It's that unfairness feeling.
Thanks for sharing your hang-up, we've all got them.
 

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i have a straight married friend who is super hung. ive always fancied him and i think he probably knows that. the fact he has 9+ just makes him into more of a god like figure for me.
i'm not small, 7.5, but he'll always have that edge...
 
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I wonder if anyone out there with an average endowment has had a similar experience. I'm 5.75” x 5”... right in the 50th percentile if you believe Mr Average (Mr. Average - The true story about penis size, from a site that isn't trying to sell you anything.). Never had any complaints. My best friend is married but I've seen his flaccid penis and we're about the same size (2.5”). I did notice his cut penis had a skin like a shar pei. Clue! In a recent drunken conversation he admitted his wife says he was the biggest she'd ever had. When I mentioned his flaccid size he said it grows a lot. He'd never measured so I put him up to it...he says 8” properly measured along the top! Now I'm feeling depressed... I love looking at big cocks when they are on someone anonymous but it seems different knowing my buddy who is nearly a copy of me in all other dimensions has over 2” on me. I guess I'm just jealous but it also depresses me. It's not that I'm upset that I don't have a big one (I accept that) but I now know we aren't on par. Weird?

Yes.
 

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Nothing worse than knowing a girl you like is with another guy and his dick is smaller. She might even know you have a bigger one and still chooses to be with someone else.

What am I getting at? I don't know. I'm bitter
Don't try to think about your buddies' wang being bigger though, nothing good comes from being jealous
 
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I am just over 9 and it is funny how some guys act about it .some guys want me to fuck their wives, others like me better when they find out ,some guys get strang about it . If your a real friend man up ! He's a hung stud and your not .how would feel if he was smaller than you ? Just be happy for him . Good friend are hard to find .And be happy he's married and not after your wife !
 
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WTF, I just can't imagine someone stop talking to a friend just because he has a bigger dick. That's just stupid!
 

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I kinda get it. I has one buddy who is probably at least 8", and I was a bit envious of it at first. But I don't even think about it, now. Besides, I'm lucky enough to have a good size on me which has served me well. You gotta get it out of our mind. Wold suck to lose a friendship over cock size.