Not sure if this has been discussed before, but why do SOME gay men feel its necessary to out someone ? There was an ad on manhunt saying that he does not assure discretion and will tell the whole world about you if the sex is bad. There are times when someone gets hurt and they want to out them for revenge. I truly feel It's not right and people should just respect someone discretion. This hasn't happen to me yet, but it pisses me off people do this.