Urgent Help Needed: What Should I Say?

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ok so a while back i posted something about having trouble talking to a guy
so finally i just said hi to him when i was drunk on facebook
i said "hey there steve"
so now he responded and he said "hey whats up jon sorry i've been busy with work and all. summer is good so far. 4th of july was a shit show of course. how about you?"


if i had enough confidence and experience to know what to say back i'd just say it but if i come up with something on my own then i'll either freak him out or piss him off so what should i say back?
 

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Hey, dude --

1. You look totally yummy.

2. Ask him a question (any of the following, or whatever you can think of): What have you been doing today? U have more pics? Whazzup this summer for u, dude? U get laid a lot? My July 4th was ___. Man, I had a big ol' hardon this morning, but I took care of it. Came a huge load. Do you cum a lot?

I hope this is not offensive to you, but I hope they are conversation starters.

My best to you, and let me know if this was helpful.
DP
 

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Just be yourself and say whatever comes to mind. You can't depend on others to tell you what to say.

Do you want hm to get to know you, or us?
 

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Oh you shouldnt worry so much about saying the "right" thing, because no one knows what the perfect thing to say is.
Just think of it as a casual conversation to a friend you havent seen awhile.
Just say how your summer was, and maybe sk him if anything has changed since the last time you saw him.
 

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If you dwell on things too much then you put yourself through unneeded stress. Relax and then it wont be so hard for you to come up with other things to say. Most of all, be yourself.