Be warned, I want real advice, so I have included a (slightly excessive) lengthy back story. First the question, What should I do for this girl for Valentines Day? Okay, now the history. Six years ago I was a senior in high school, I almost started a relationship with a girl (Sarah). We didn't find each other until 2 months before I left for college (she was a year younger than me), and decided that a distance thing wouldn't work, and I we didn't want to wind up hating each other so we stopped short of dating. That said, I never even KISSED this girl, but we knew we could have something special, and the night I left it was very sad. I was still a virgin then too. Flash forward, I haven't spoken to her in 4-5 years. I have graduated from college, and been forced to move back in with my parents during the job hunt. I call her up to see if she is still around my hometown. She is delighted to hear from me, we talk for more than an hour, and we agree to a lunch date, her parents live down from the restraunt we were at, so we go there and talk till 9 PM (I unexpectedly got to meet her family better than I intended, and play with her younger brothers, who all seemed to like me). I watched the Superbowl with her last Sunday at her parents house... AGAIN, so no "moves" could be made. Last night I called her, we had previously made plans to meet up tonight with some of her friends for a night out TONIGHT (Friday). Well she just happens to be on the short list with the band Cage the Elephant she told me that she has arranged for me to go with her to see them at a small unannounced show on V-day! Which is great... but a friend of her's (guy, I am not worried about as far as competition is concerned, but a close friend and co-worker... I might add that I am much more attractive haha) is going too. Now on to the primary issue, on the phone she said she was making v-day presents... she didn't say anything about one for me. But she made a point to mention that she was making some. I am going to meet her at her apartment (away from the parents and family!) tomorrow afternoon. Should I bring a present? I think I should, but I don't want to be over baring... I want to keep our relationship casual, not OMG I WUV SOOOO MUCH. We both have recently (past 6 months) come out of bad, lengthy, relationships. So I AM scared of getting in way too deep, and I can tell that she is too. I need a gift that is light hearted, says I really enjoy being with you, is original, and says lets get it on tonight! Are roses cliche? Should I do flowers at all? How many??!! What other options are there? SO MANY QUESTIONS!!! HELP!