Urinal display

[GuyHudson]

for me, when I do undo my belt and trousers, it's because I've also got to readjust my shirt tails and use the opportunity of taking a piss to straighten out my shirt and trousers. But like most everyone else, if guys take a look too, it's all good.

 

[lilbear]

I go commando 24/7, so I unbutton/unzip and let it all hang out. If anyone wants to look, go right ahead, i don't have a problem with it.

 

[Meniscus]

I can't believe how many of you don't use your fly of your pants to urinate. It's really not that difficult. Unzip your pants with your right hand. If your underwear has a fly, reach in with your left hand and hold the fly open. Then with your right hand, pull out your dick, aim, and pee. When done, use your right hand to put your dick back in your pants, use your left hand to close the fly and make any necessary adjustments to your underwear, then zip up with your right hand.

If your underwear doesn't have a fly, just use your left hand to hold the waistband of your underwear down so that it's not putting any pressure on your urethra.

If you are left-handed, reverse these directions.

In either case, there's no reason for there to be any pressure on your urethra that would cause difficulty urinating. Unless perhaps you are physically disabled, there is no reason to undo your belt, unbutton your pants, or pull out your scrotum, except to show off. I have only seen such behavior 2 or 3 times in my life, and everyone else in the restroom reacted as if it was strange and kinda creepy.

 

[michaang]

Meniscus: Maybe you live in a very, very conservative area then. Requiring a one-process way of doing things, and expecting it to be the only righteous possibility? Sounds very one-sided to me. Also, I find the process of having to fish through my pants fly, and underwear fly to get my dick out annoying.

Not only that, but if it isn't loose and depending on the type of lower clothing I'm wearing, it can be slightly constrained on the flow of urine coming out, especially direction-wise. Meaning, if not everything comes out because there was a bit of pressure blocking the flow, when you finally fish it back into your pants and let it hang, the extra bit that didn't come out is going to stain your underwear. Huh, I guess I must be physically disabled. And apparently a restroom with guys watching a guy do his work differently than you're accustomed to isn't creepy? Interesting.

I'm sorry, but people that set ultimatums to do common everyday things piss me off.

 

[silentview]

I think its just a comfort thing, I don't exactly go around displaying it but whipping it all out just feels right.

 

[eastbaydude]

If I'm wearing any type of low-rise pants or tight jeans, I open the belt, button and fly. It's just a whole lot easier.

If I'm wearing dress slacks, the fly works just fine.

 

[mako shark]

I can't fit my hand through the fly since it is too large, so consider it a necessity.

 

[TragicWhiteKnight]

I usually wear pouch jocks, which is really inconvenient for going for a piss, compared to boxers or even briefs, but it's worth it for comfort and to keep my bulge a bit more discrete.

Then again, I usually just use the stalls whenever possible - I don't really like the attention I can get.

 

[D_Dick_Dock_Doe]

I can't believe how many of you don't use your fly of your pants to urinate. It's really not that difficult. Unzip your pants with your right hand. If your underwear has a fly, reach in with your left hand and hold the fly open. Then with your right hand, pull out your dick, aim, and pee. When done, use your right hand to put your dick back in your pants, use your left hand to close the fly and make any necessary adjustments to your underwear, then zip up with your right hand.

If your underwear doesn't have a fly, just use your left hand to hold the waistband of your underwear down so that it's not putting any pressure on your urethra.

If you are left-handed, reverse these directions.

In either case, there's no reason for there to be any pressure on your urethra that would cause difficulty urinating. Unless perhaps you are physically disabled, there is no reason to undo your belt, unbutton your pants, or pull out your scrotum, except to show off. I have only seen such behavior 2 or 3 times in my life, and everyone else in the restroom reacted as if it was strange and kinda creepy.

Dude, I think your response is really of the mark. Besides the fact that I don't see why anyone should really give a shit how a dude takes a piss, to ascribe a sinister or alterior motive or physical inability to those of us dudes that do unbelt, unbutton, unzip and pull dick and balls out to piss is just lame. This is what I wrote in a previous thread that discussed the same issue, and I stand behind it:

I pull dick and balls out so as not to restrict my flow. I have tried peeing with just my dick out in the past, and I always end up dribbling into my shorts afterwards. That's just gross to me, so I pull it all out to keep from making a mess in my shorts. I don't know about the rest of you, but I'd rather not feel like I've got a leak in my shorts. Nor do I want that nasty wet spot on the front of my pants that guys who don't "shake it off" get.

One thing I do have to remark on is the assumption that just because I pull all my junk out at the urinal that I MUST be showing off. Newsflash, peeps - not everything I do regarding my package is associated with perving. Some actions (like pissing at the urinal) are just that...benign actions. Nothing more. No subtext or sexual undertone. Not all of us are "up to something." And to assume that we are says more about the person doing the assuming (wishful thinking?) than it does about the accused.

 

[swimmersox]

When I wore briefs most of the time, up until a few years ago, I'd almost always do the 'unbelt' thing. Just easier than fishing around with all those layers, etc.

Also, what someone said about about low-rise is also true--with those, unbelting is necessary.

But with boxers (or boxer briefs), the fly is actually easier and quicker for me.

In general, taking a piss shouldn't be about showing off; its about getting drained.

However, seeing as most of us on this site are at least somewhat cock-obsessed (think about it), I guess it's true that pissing is an opportunity for cock-focusing. So why not enjoy it.

I rarely pay attention to anything but the task at hand, but there are exceptions. Those big, crowded, trough-like cock scenes at sporting events, for example, are kind of fun. Being somewhat hung (but otherwise pretty slim & unassuming), it does feel nice to whip out a big one next to all those knuckle-dragging pumped up drunk fan types (no offense... or maybe only a little). Cuts 'em down to size, as it were...

 

[Meniscus]

Auron & giozam,

I have read and considered your comments.

I am willing to admit that it was wrong of me to say that the only reason to unbuckle, etc, is to show off. I suppose that there could be other reasons. However, I can't imagine what those reasons might be, as I remain unconvinced that using the fly restricts the flow of urine in any way.

Also, I fail to see how unbuttoning your belt and pants and taking everything out is supposed to solve the alleged dribbling problem.

I stand by my position that using the fly is easy and efficient and that there's no reason why doing so should restrict the flow of urine. And if you've thoroughly drained your bladder and "shaken off" properly, there's no reason why you should be dribbling in your shorts when you are done.

I will also concede that a guy has the right to unbuckle and pull it all out if that's what he thinks is easier and more comfortable, BUT guys who do that need to understand and accept the following: Because the vast majority of guys use the fly, when they see a guy unbuckling and pulling it all out, they are going to think it's weird because a) it's unusual and b) it's totally unnecessary. Therefore, it's not unreasonable to suspect that the guy who is over-exposing himself in such a way is showing off, and in a public setting that's inappropriate, thus the perception that the guy is a bit creepy.

One could argue that unbuckling and pulling it all out is a violation of common sense men's room etiquette, thus guys who prefer to urinate that way should seriously consider using a stall.

 

[SirConcis]

In looser business trousers, pissing through the zipper is less of a problem.

In tighter jeans, pissing through zipper, or opening only the lower buttons of the fly (keeping upper one closed) is not as comfortable.

There are ways to unbuton the jeans from the waist down and whip the equipment and remain discrete with your hands hiding package.

Of course, if you are a cyclist, if you use facilities at some rest stop, you don't have much of a choice but to pull down the lycra and pull your dick out, exposing the dick from the belly.

Same would apply to jiogging shorts/sweat pants which don't have a fly at all.

 

[michaang]

Meniscus:

And I reiterate, why do you assume the majority of guys use the fly? Are you staring at every single guy that goes to the bathroom every time you go? That's weird, dude. And apparently wherever you go counts as the 'vast majority' of the world, too.

What I can tell you (which is an actual common truth) is that guys typically do not want to draw attention or offend anyone BY LOOKING AT EACH OTHER. It's part of 'man law', if you've ever heard of it. So if you want to talk about 'a violation of common sense men's room etiquette', you'd know that men "shouldn't" look at each other's dicks when they pull it out, therefore it doesn't matter how you do it. A major point in unbuckling/flapping out is 1. No restriction of urine flow and 2. Quick and easy way of doing it, as fishing through the fly is a slow and annoying process. And seriously, using the stall just to pee because of "overexposure" where guys shouldn't be looking in the first place, which quite honestly is their own damn problem, is completely stupid. Stop being so conservative and try using realistic common sense, not a one-minded overblown opinion.

If you honestly think the majority of guys use their fly, try a google search on this subject. It's at least 50/50.

 

[pasarefun]

I was at the la fair today and was surprised to see long troughs that were used as urinals. I was also surprised that there was one other guy actually useing it and he was a kid around 16. He just whipped out his cock and balls next to me. All the older guys were waiting for the stalls to open.
Another surprise was when I walked into another john there and the entire wall was set up to piss on. It had a sprayer at the top of the wall and floor drains for the piss. I was alone there pissing. Wierd.

 

[True_Blue]

Dude, I think your response is really off the mark. Besides the fact that I don't see why anyone should really give a shit how a dude takes a piss, to ascribe a sinister or alterior motive or physical inability to those of us dudes that do unbelt, unbutton, unzip and pull dick and balls out to piss is just lame. Well said. I couldn't agree more.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

I remain unconvinced that using the fly restricts the flow of urine in any way.

Your pants may have a fly, but your underwear may not.

 

[DallasMarine]

Was in DFW the other day. At Admiral's Club in Terminal D. Standing at urinal and military guy come in, unzips it, flops it out and proceeds to carry on a conversation. The more he talked, the longer and thicker this thing started to hang. He played with it more than anything else. Guy in a suit walked in and we had to leave. Otherwise I am sure there would have been a great show. Point being...he pulled everything out. Been noticing this more and more. I do allot of traveling for work. Guys in the airport seem to be all about the show. I guess they have nothing else to do while waiting on their flights.

 

[Meniscus]

Meniscus:

And I reiterate, why do you assume the majority of guys use the fly?

Because I use public restrooms on a frequent and regular basis and I've only ever seen a guy unbelt on 2 or 3 occasions. Each time it was very noticeable not only to me but to every other guy in the room, and we all reacted as if it was a strange thing to do and stayed as far away from the unbelted, over-exposed guy as possible.

Are you staring at every single guy that goes to the bathroom every time you go?

Certainly not.

...guys typically do not want to draw attention or offend anyone BY LOOKING AT EACH OTHER...So if you want to talk about 'a violation of common sense men's room etiquette', you'd know that men "shouldn't" look at each other's dicks when they pull it out...

I agree 100%. But if a guy next to me unbuckles his belt, pulls downs his pants, and/or pulls out his balls, I don't need to be looking at him to notice what he's doing. I have ears, I have peripheral vision, and I am generally mindful of my surroundings.

Stop being so conservative and try using realistic common sense, not a one-minded overblown opinion.

Anyone who knows me (as many on this site do) knows that I'm neither conservative nor narrow-minded. Quite the opposite, in fact. And don't accuse me of being unrealistic and not using common sense. My position on this issue is entirely empirical.

If you honestly think the majority of guys use their fly, try a google search on this subject. It's at least 50/50.

On this subject, I trust my own 38 years of experience using public restrooms more than any information I might find on the Internet.

 

[Meniscus]

Your pants may have a fly, but your underwear may not.

Here's how you do it: Unzip or unbutton the fly of your pants, hook your thumb under the waistband of your underwear and pull it down, then with your other hand pull out your penis, aim, and fire. It's really quite easy--you don't need a degree in engineering to figure out how to do it.

FYI: Most of my underwear is without a fly.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

I take everything out, open pants up and prop my nuts on top of my underwear waist band, this acts like a stand for my dick. It points it all straight outwards at a horizontal, and then I dont have to hold onto anything. I find I wont go to to the bathroom for most of the day and then late afternoon/evening go a bunch of times for a really long time. I find not having to hold on and aim with my hands a nice relief. I can stand with my hands on my hips or lean against the wall if it the urinal has one/ those half assed dividers. Either way I dont think its weird to take it all out, but it is less common.

I do the exact same when I wear undies...the other time I just hold my pants from the side and then just let it all hang..