Urinary Tract Infections

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_Mademoiselle Rouge, Apr 26, 2009.

  1. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Messages:
    9,735
    Likes Received:
    26
    Location:
    Southern US
    OMG is a real Women's Fucking Issue

    So, am i the only one who gets these constantly? This is the downside to being small and having a girthy man (friction and all). This tends to happen when we have sex frequently, never when we do it infrequently. I've battled these from sex for like 15 years, eventually had bladder/urethra surgery to help all for no good reason. Guess im going to have to try to get in with the doc tomorrow.

    Ugh, now excuse me while i go *try* to pee again.
     
  2. B_Think_Kink

    B_Think_Kink New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 25, 2006
    Messages:
    10,742
    Likes Received:
    17
    Gender:
    Female
    Cranberry pills work wonders. I had 13 bladder infections in a year and they put me on a 6 month round of drugs to combat it. It hasn't come back since. I had to see a specialist though.

    They suck, I empathize with you. *hugs*
     
  3. Honey123

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 6, 2007
    Messages:
    1,322
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    13
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Aridzona
    Verified:
    Photo
    Oh girl, I feel for you. I had a bad one a couple months ago. No sex for years then sex like crazy for a week over Christmas break left me with a doozy. I hope you find a way to clear it out. Has your hubby ever been treated with antibiotic the same time you are? They can be carriers sometimes.
     
  4. StraightCock4Her

    StraightCock4Her New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2007
    Messages:
    922
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    DFW, Texas
    I had a girl that used to get these but the problem was mostly cleanliness, I think. Peeing after sex is the most important thing and take a shower before and after, this should be the best way to keep it away until you get over it and then just shower and pee after every time and it shouldnt be an issue.
     
  5. nudeyorker

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 6, 2006
    Messages:
    42,918
    Likes Received:
    36
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    NYC/Honolulu
    Always urinate after you have sex. Try putting a tsp of apple cider vinegar in a glass of juice every day. Sorry I know it sucks...feel better!
     
  6. smith2267

    smith2267 Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2008
    Messages:
    167
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    actually, I don't understand the connection between a bf with a big'un, and UTI's. and I'm not stupid, I'm in mensa and made it to senior year in vet school. Would someone care to explain the connection?
     
  7. StraightCock4Her

    StraightCock4Her New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2007
    Messages:
    922
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    DFW, Texas
    She obviously wasn't trying to make that exact connection. This is a women's issues forum, not a women's issues strictly related to big dicks forum.
     
  8. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Messages:
    9,735
    Likes Received:
    26
    Location:
    Southern US
    because the girth makes his cock rub up against the urethral opening very hard, pulling it all over the place giving it access to all sorts of lovely things. This isnt a cleanliness issue, for some it might be but for me its not. Genitals have germs regardless how much you wash up. For centuries people never showered- let alone before or after sex and many of them never had bladder issues. i've known people who never bathe and never get bladder infections and then there are people like me who are scrupulously clean and still get them.

    Some women are more prone than others. My genitals are very small, close together and when penetrated, have to make way for it a lot more than most.

    I can probably attribute this one to not peeing after sex a couple of times this week. I should know better but i have a hard time going afterwards but it looks like i'll have to make it happen.
     
  9. dolfette

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 13, 2006
    Messages:
    11,901
    Likes Received:
    25
    the more stretch, friction and strain you put on a peehole, the more likely you are to open it up to irritation and infection.

    never once had it until i lost my virginity.

    went away completely once i returned to a celibate life.

    also, i passed the mensa entrance exam.
    which just goes to show what a worthless boast it is.
     
  10. dolfette

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 13, 2006
    Messages:
    11,901
    Likes Received:
    25
    *ponders* if a mildly antiseptic lube would help...
    lavender scented vag? i should invent this!
     
  11. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Messages:
    9,735
    Likes Received:
    26
    Location:
    Southern US
    Thats a great idea....i wonder if a lil tea tree oil would help? Damn you have me wondering....im going to google that!
     
  12. B_Think_Kink

    B_Think_Kink New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 25, 2006
    Messages:
    10,742
    Likes Received:
    17
    Gender:
    Female
    I don't think so hun, any slight amount of antiseptic would destroy the natural flora of the area, resulting in another infection.
     
  13. Cherry_Pie

    Cherry_Pie New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 10, 2009
    Messages:
    8
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Vancouver
    I have been suffering with bladder and urinary tract infections for as long as I can remember. It is the worst pain! I don't get it - done a lot of reading, I do eveything right, and they still happen. Sooo frusterating. I finally got a referral to a urologist and am on the waiting list. Interested to see if it is a physical abnormality.
    I do think penis size has something to do with it though....my new boyfriend is larger than average and I've already had two in the 6 months we've been together.
     
  14. B_Think_Kink

    B_Think_Kink New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 25, 2006
    Messages:
    10,742
    Likes Received:
    17
    Gender:
    Female
    It took a specialist to see what my issue was. There was sediment in my bladder that wasn't getting expelled.

    Hope they figure out your problem.
     
  15. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Messages:
    9,735
    Likes Received:
    26
    Location:
    Southern US
    Just be glad you dont have kidney stones, i've given birth to about a dozen and i have 7 still in there!
     
  16. Mackleanen Beebarf

    Mackleanen Beebarf New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 9, 2006
    Messages:
    344
    Likes Received:
    2
    DW has had problems with this (UTIs), and I hate it for her. No fun at all.

    Question: Have any of you made a connection between UTIs and certain positions? We don't avoid them completely, but we're careful and somewhat judicious with rear entry positions because she thinks the back-to-front movement sends more potential pathogens from hole to hole (I really tried to find a nicer way to put that...).

    Not too long ago, she had what seemed like a UTI even though we'd not had sex in recent days. I wouldn't wish that one anybody, but I was sorta relieved to know I couldn't have been responsible.
     
    #16 Mackleanen Beebarf, Apr 27, 2009
    Last edited: Apr 27, 2009
  17. Mackleanen Beebarf

    Mackleanen Beebarf New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 9, 2006
    Messages:
    344
    Likes Received:
    2
    It's probably no news flash, but I'm pretty sure a propensity to UTIs goes hand-in-hand with a propensity to stones.

    You gotta flood those kidneys, M!
     
  18. StraightCock4Her

    StraightCock4Her New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2007
    Messages:
    922
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    DFW, Texas
    Kidney stones are my worst nightmare. Please, tell me you know what causes yours and tell me how to avoid them!
     
  19. Jovial

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2006
    Messages:
    2,404
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    CA
    I know you said it's not a cleanliness issues, but if it were both you and your husband would want to be clean before sex. I heard once that men give the infections to women, but maybe that is not accurate.

    Other people said to pee after sex. Maybe you can drink a large glass of water right before or after so you can pee a lot soon afterward.

    In any case, good luck and I hope you find a solution! :flowers1:
     
  20. smith2267

    smith2267 Member

    Joined:
    Dec 21, 2008
    Messages:
    167
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    just so you know, men are not immune to UTI's. I had one once in college, when I was stressed out and immunosuppressed.
     
Draft saved Draft deleted