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Which state do you live in. Are you happy where you live or do you which you lived in a different state. Specify which state you would rather live on and why. Which state did you grow up in. How many states have you lived in total.
 

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West Virginia here. I've lived in Oklahoma and North Carolina. NC is a nice place to visit. I told my drill sergeant it would have been crueler to the Indians if we would have let them keep Oklahoma.
WV is great if you can stay away from the more populated areas. I live 50 miles from the nearest city in any direction. It's a bit lonely as far as dating and sex but it's quiet and people tend to mind their own business. There are only about 1 million people in the state so there's plenty of mountainside to go around. The scenery is absolutely gorgeous, wildlife plentiful and people sparse. Just the way I like it.
 
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I’ve lived in NC, KY, and MD—and Chicago as a very small child.

MD—just outside DC—was frenetic, overpriced, and overcrowded, but we lived between two parks and could walk two blocks every evening to watch the deer come down to the creek to drink. They were so urbanized that they looked both ways before crossing the road.

KY was a weird mix of Southern, Northern, and Midwestern culture. I had to re-learn how to read people when I lived there. I suppose the best way of saying it is that in Louisville, KY, work is fast-paced, as Northerners like it; home life is slower-paced, as Southerners like it; and social interactions are full of that peculiar Midwestern “nice”ness, even if people don’t like you.

NC people talk slow and drive fast, especially us minorities. Women are under severe pressure to look great well into their 80s. Men, not so much—it’s common among rich couples that when they go out to eat or for an evening at the theater, the woman is dressed up and made up well enough to accept a civic award and be photographed for tomorrow’s front page, while her husband has on a golf shirt and Dockers khakis.

In both KY and NC, if you’re more than 30 minutes from an interstate highway, you’ve stepped back in time at least 50 years—in some cases 100, and in extreme cases anywhere from 150 to 200 years. In Maryland, sophisticated people aren’t as hard to find outside of the cities, and conversely, unsophisticated people aren’t as restricted to the “rural” areas.

Chicago was a blend of impressions—the snow that was taller than I was, the rabbits in our tree-lined backyard (they loved when Mom set out carrot peelings for them in the winter), the boy down the street who had a red plastic pedal car that truly fascinated me, the firehouse two doors down, the lullaby Mom and Dad sang so my brothers and I would go to sleep, the blue and white nautical-themed bedspread, and the green and yellow train engines that would slowly pull long lines of train cars over the tracks at the end of the street. What I didn’t know is that just over the berm supporting the tracks was I-90, all (I believe at the time) eight lanes of it.

Vacations in Miami, NYC, and Atlanta, along with visits to Williamsburg and the VA, NC, and SC coasts, as well as business flights in and out of multiple major USA airports, have shown me that I live in a reasonably good area of the country. Once I’m free of the responsibility of being my parents’ primary caretaker, we may move to an area that’s more gay-friendly.

NCbear (who’s probably told you more than you needed to know in this somewhat long-winded response)
 
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I was born in Atlanta. But I'm an itinerant journalist who now finds himself in the heart of Dallas. I've lived in Georgia, Texas, Florida, New York, Texas, Georgia, Florida, Texas. Yeah, I've yo-yoed a few times.

I'd prefer to be in a cabin in the Smoky Mountains with my own still and a typewriter.
 

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Born and raised in Flyover Country - Missouri. Have lived in Texas, New Hampshire, and Florida.

If I had my wish, I'd winter in Naples, FL or Scottsdale, AZ and summer in Wyoming or Montana.
 

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I have lived in Massachusetts my entire life, and have no desire to ever live anywhere else. I have traveled and stayed all over the US, and most places were enjoyable, but I love the 4 seasons of New England. I could never live in the south in the summer!
 
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I’ve lived in NC, KY, and MD—and Chicago as a very small child.

MD—just outside DC—was frenetic, overpriced, and overcrowded, but we lived between two parks and could walk two blocks every evening to watch the deer come down to the creek to drink. They were so urbanized that they looked both ways before crossing the road.

KY was a weird mix of Southern, Northern, and Midwestern culture. I had to re-learn how to read people when I lived there. I suppose the best way of saying it is that in Louisville, KY, work is fast-paced, as Northerners like it; home life is slower-paced, as Southerners like it; and social interactions are full of that peculiar Midwestern “nice”ness, even if people don’t like you.

NC people talk slow and drive fast, especially us minorities. Women are under severe pressure to look great well into their 80s. Men, not so much—it’s common among rich couples that when they go out to eat or for an evening at the theater, the woman is dressed up and made up well enough to accept a civic award and be photographed for tomorrow’s front page, while her husband has on a golf shirt and Dockers khakis.

In both KY and NC, if you’re more than 30 minutes from an interstate highway, you’ve stepped back in time at least 50 years—in some cases 100, and in extreme cases anywhere from 150 to 200 years. In Maryland, sophisticated people aren’t as hard to find outside of the cities, and conversely, unsophisticated people aren’t as restricted to the “rural” areas.

Chicago was a blend of impressions—the snow that was taller than I was, the rabbits in our tree-lined backyard (they loved when Mom set out carrot peelings for them in the winter), the boy down the street who had a red plastic pedal car that truly fascinated me, the firehouse two doors down, the lullaby Mom and Dad sang so my brothers and I would go to sleep, the blue and white nautical-themed bedspread, and the green and yellow train engines that would slowly pull long lines of train cars over the tracks at the end of the street. What I didn’t know is that just over the berm supporting the tracks was I-90, all (I believe at the time) eight lanes of it.

Vacations in Miami, NYC, and Atlanta, along with visits to Williamsburg and the VA, NC, and SC coasts, as well as business flights in and out of multiple major USA airports, have shown me that I live in a reasonably good area of the country. Once I’m free of the responsibility of being my parents’ primary caretaker, we may move to an area that’s more gay-friendly.

NCbear (who’s probably told you more than you needed to know in this somewhat long-winded response)

Thanks for the reply. Very informative and helpful.
 
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I grew up in Atlantic City, NJ until 23. We lived in Miami, FL when I was 5, 6, and 7. At 23, I moved to Phoenix, AZ. I lived there for 15 years. After AZ, I moved to San Diego, CA. I love San Diego. I went back east in September 2019 to spend time with family. Just returned to San Diego on November 1st this year. I hope to spend the rest of my days here in San Diego. The weather is agreeable almost all of the time. I don't want to deal with freezing temperatures, snow, or ice.
 

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I havent decided which state I'm gonna move to yet. Can anybody recommend the states that has the sexiest men and good job market, and good restautants? Also one where the weathers not very cold.

The sexiest men are in......Toronto!