Very bad idea. If your ass is hurting, you're doing something wrong and the pain is your signal to stop doing whatever that is and change your technique. Pain is information, don't ignore or numb it.
Coconut oil also works. I used to use a mix of coconut oil and Shea butter.The only thing I put up my ass are frozen balls of Crisco that we used to call bullets. They slowly melt and go deep for any activity that you are into.
Actually no you don’t. Need to get your ass torn up. You need a top that is skilled enough to help you open up for his dick. Or you need to practice with some toys and train your hole to be able to take a cock. I understand that you seem to have fond memories about being “broken in” like that, but you didn’t have to go through that. There was another way. My first time was completely pain free because I was with a caring guy willing to take his time and help me along.why would i do that it ruins that fun. My advice, for the longest time i was terrified of a big cock. 6 inches tore me up lol, I could not relax but i loved the feeling of being used, I meet a TS with a THICK cock 7 or so inches not huge if I had to guess, but THICK...
I saw that monster and literally told her to wait one min and pounded half a bottle of wine lol. I tried to ride her but it would not slip in period, I was like shit. So she bent me over the bed and said this may hurt a bit but I will go easy.
She worked in the tip, then next thing i knew she was bitting my ear telling me she is going to fuck me hard now. She used my ass for hours and the first 10 min I was just screaming in the pillow. The next day, my ass hurt and I even thought to myself I may not have this in me lol.
She text me back a few days later wanting to fuck again and I said ok. That next time my ass opened right up and it was amazing.
So basically you just have to get your ass torn up a few times lol
Have never used a desensitizing product - why would I want to diminish the amazing feeling from good anal sex?
However though that being stated, four years ago my husband and I were in Paris on vacation and we were walking down a quite street and came up on a sex shop. We walked in and started looking around and my husband bought some 'lube'. Of course the label was in french but it was lube. So fast forward a few hours when were back in the hotel room, he lathers his dick up with the new lube and then we start to fuck. After about 5 minutes I start to feel something burning. With all of his thrusting my ass was starting to get hot. I told him he needed to stop and that there is something in the lube that's burning. I got out of bed and jumped in the shower trying to find some relief. It turned out that he had bought cinnamon oil flavored lube that when heated up via thrusting got warmer and warmer. The next day it felt like someone had tried to start a fire in my ass. OUCH!
That sure would remove any of the pleasure of getting fucked, it's the feeling of his tool going in that counts, you like to know it's in and doing its job.Do any of you guys use a desensitizing cream or ointment up your ass when getting fucked?