Using the Men's Room

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  1. TinaBobina

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    So I was out at a baseball game last night and had to pee. Of course there was a huge line like always, so my friend was like, "let's just use the guys' one." I was a little hesitant, but I've seen girls do it before and I figured I had a friend, so why not.

    We go in, and all these guys are peeing in like a big trough. There weren't any urinals like on TV or any dividers, and just walking in I saw like 3 dicks. And it made me really uncomfortable. I know I was in the men's room, but I figured we'd walk in, I'd see some guy's back, I'd run into the stall, then run out. But, of course, all the stalls are taken, so we're just standing there, facing the stall doors with all these guys walking around us staring.

    A stall opens up and we look at each other. I think my friend could see how eager I was to get out of there, so she sort of nodded and I headed in. I finished and came out, and now she's in a different stall. So I'm standing there by myself waiting for her, trying desperately not to make eye contact with anyone, when this guy behind me yells out "Hey, you!" I kinda jump and turn around without thinking, and he's standing there holding out his penis and says "Is this what you came in here for?"

    I had no idea what to do. I wanted to run, but I couldn't leave my friend, so I just turned around and looked at the floor, and all the guys around were laughing. Like a second later she came out and I grabbed her hand and dragged her out as fast as I could.

    So basically, I was wondering how many women here have gone into the men's room at a large public place, and whether incidents like this are common? Did I just happen to get a weirdo, or was I asking for it by going in there in the first place? Is there some piece of ettiquete that I needed to know? Not that it even matters, because I don't think I'm ever going to do it again.

    No matter how long the lines are.
     
  2. SlimGuySB

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    The first part - a trough - is not that common any more (I think men are supposed to have become more 'sensitive' over the years and now need their own 'private space' to pee, or some such drivel) but they are there and if you walk in, you are gonna see the parts of us you might not normally see! However as far as the second part goes, that guy was a ass.
     
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    Could have just been a 'man' thing. Lavs are one of the last single sex spaces, women, for want of another word, invading this space is gonna spark a reaction and as flashing your cock is the lowest common pissing about demoninator, he probably gave you an eye full to show off his masculinity to his mates or other men. Or plain and simply, u just got a weirdo...

    Perhaps, if a lady wants to use the gents, knock on the door and shout 'pregnant lady desperate to p' most men shout be instinctivly polite enough to accomadate...
     
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    Admittedly I've only been to a few baseball games (they bore the bejesus out of me) so I don't know if that's a place where women in the men's room is an exception.

    I've only seen women in the men's room in those small 1 stall + 1 urinal types where generally a significant other or family member accompanys the lady to scout it out first and then explain things should someone else come along. I've scouted for my mom in the past.

    That guy was an ass regardless of circumstances.
     
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    Spoting event, alcohol, mens bathroom = asking for trouble

    but id say you encountered a drunken asshole loaded with Dutch courage (very unfortant situation)

    I must say though, i was recently at a large event and used the excuse of wanting to use the mens room (for the short line up) as a way of asking a cute guy to escort me in there and be my personal security. Unfortantly he was very drunk and when he had to move seaats so did his concentration ( i and my forgotten about)
    :sad2:
     
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    He probably acieved some of the reaction he wanted when you stared in the floor looking terrified.
    Stay calm and tell the guy the truth, U simply had to pee. and that you hope thats what he came here for as well would probably be less exiteing for him.
     
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    :sad2: Well if was two mans going into a ladies room they probably was arrested by the police, Since the girls went inside the mens room nothing happens STRANGE WORLD
     
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    i've gone in there.
    but only if it's a smaller place i know well & am well known.
    and i've gone in with guy friends who were worse for wear & i wanted to keep an eye on.


    i've seen guys go into the ladies when they've got their daughter to look after. i've never minded that. it's kinda sweet.
    or if he was looking after a drunk&sick girl friend.
    or if the gents was out of order, and he was polite & discrete.
     
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    Probably? with a man walking into a crowded women's bathroom at a public event you would have women calling the police from the stalls and whipping out their cell phones to take pictures of him so the police could hunt him down in the stadium.

    Two men in a women's bathroom at a public event? Front page news. Clearly they didn't do in there to use the rest room.
     
  11. dolfette

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    because clearly the men would feel scared & intimidated by two women in th rest rooms.
     
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    Toilet time is me time. I don't want anyone seeing. Man or woman. I do agree there is a double standard. I am afraid to go into girl's toilets for fear of being arrested or something. Or at least the girls screaming :tongue:

    But girls go in a guy's restroom and its okay? Hmm. How about you respect the privacy and the designated gender of the room.
     
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    because, for some insane reason, they build the gents and the ladies the same size.
    though stalls take up twice the space of a urinal.
    and, not being able to whip it out at a wall, the ladies take 2 or 3 times longer to pee.
    so whenever things get busy, there ladies room line moves slower than the post office on pension day.
     
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    Public facilities should be required to supply twice as many women's restrooms as men's rooms. The reason should be obvious.
     
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    Whaaaaaaa! :banghead2:

    I'm probably going to fry for this one but, hey what the hell.

    A good friend of mine, who happens to be lesbian, used to work security for a dyke bar. A couple of friends and I went to visit her and have few drinks. Well, it came time to take a whiz and I went to the room with letters "MEN" on the door. It was filled with moss back dykes. I started for the urinial to relive myself and you would have thought the end of the world was coming. I got slammed up against the wall and told I was not supposed to be in that room. They threatened calling the police I handed them my cell phone, turned around and pissed. They in fact did call the police they showed up, and they were told to leave the "MENS" room that they were in violation of the law. Finally, sweet justice.

    Now, before I completely get slammed for using the word dyke... nah, slam me.. I can take it!
     
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    you want to know the proper ettiquette for going into the mens room??? I'd say you probably were treated as expected... Sorry if I sound harsh, but, come on...
     
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    like, argh!
    <with eyes squinted> "No, not really. I came in to pee and maybe see a big cock, not a thimble."

    That wouldn't have been a good idea, but it would have been hard to resist saying something like that."

    Better...
     
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    AGREED

     
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    I agree too.. being around my brother and being a party girl in a band... Im used to seeing things like this.. With my attitude.. if I was glutten for punishment and decided to go into a mens bathroom... and a guy did that to me.. I would have looked .. laughed.. and pointed at the cutest guy with the biggest dick.. and simply said.. No babe,too small for me.. I came for THAT!! :biggrin1:
     
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    Interesting thread.

    Some places have added a third gender, "Family" where you can pile in the whole crowd and have some privacy.

    And yes, it's sad that there's a double standard. But if proper manners are used, I think both genders can get along in public bathrooms.
     
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