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If I had that philosophy, I never would have lost my virginity! The first time I was sexual with a woman, she had been giving me a blow job, and said "If only ..." I replied "I have condoms", she smiled, and the rest is history!I have always said that if I had to fuck using condoms I probably wouldn't fuck. It's like fucking with a coat on your cock.
I was always adamant that to go bareback, we had to be in a mutually monogamous relationship where she was on reliable birth control, and we were both disease free. Anything other than that was being too risky for me. In that first long relationship, did we 'cheat' and go bareback? Yes, sometimes we would start fucking that way, but I always, and I mean always, put on a condom if there was no other birth control in place. I tried at least a dozen different condoms over time and found some that stretched enough to not choke me (there were no large condoms at the time) and were also thin enough that it did not feel like I was wearing an overcoat. Using lube also helped the situation out tremendously.