wideload: Hey all, I found this site while doing a google search on this sorta stuff. My question is more for the ladys out there, but mabey some men can help as well. I'll start off by saying that my penis isn't huge by length standards, but its width is a bit more than normal. I'v measured it at 6.5 long and 6.25 girth (inches) Anyways my fiance and I have been together for almost a year now, she is my second partner and I am her first. Our problem is that after a year I still cause her injury. She will tell me that she finds peices of "torn skin" after we have sex some times, and that it feels like I am "streatching her out". At first a got a bit of an ego boost out of this, but now after 12 months it makes me sad to have her tell me after sex "It was great hunny, but I don't think we can have sex again for a week or so". What i'm asking is does anyone have ideas on how to still provide good sex to my future wife with out hurting her to much?