Vaginal orgasms - Matter of size?

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Ok, I came with fresh news.


She told me some facts about her ex dick. He was big, something like 7.5x6.5, and very thick she said (with a big head).
When we first fuck, I had notice that she was very loose. Now, after almost an year, I had notice that she's more tighter.

After 2 months since I started this topic, she didn't manage to have any vaginal orgasm with me. Despite all techniques used...

During sex, I hit her cervix but I can't touch her deep spot. Her ex probably could.

Maybe, after all, this is a mather of size. She is a tall girl and maybe she needs a bigger penis to have vaginal orgasms.

I've read about huge guys causing first vaginal orgasm to many girls.
Maybe the stories are true, or maybe not...
 

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Aren't you saying here:
http://www.lpsg.org/99261-virgin-likes-it-big.html
that you're 7.5" long? Also, in both this and that thread, you seem privy to some exact measurements on your lovers' previous partners. This sounds kind of fishy to me.

As someone who has slept with several women 5'10+, their height really doesn't make a difference.

I'm a little sceptical of the OP, but to contribute to the rest of this thread: if you're really worried about your dick and vaginal orgasms, don't look just at the size as a raw number. Your shape, and how you fit that particular woman, is just as (if not more) important. None of the orgasm triggers are a straight shot down the vagina - they're all off to the side. Thickness will help press more in to the side, but your shape can make a bigger difference in what you hit. Look at what the most popular high-end (seriously used, not goofy gag gift) sex toys look like - they nearly all have a curve up on them.

Besides, what use is it to be really concerned about vaginal orgasms? So long as the sex overall is awesome that's what counts. I used to date someone who had never had a vaginal orgasm before me, and she eventually got there but it was a rare occurrence, but she loved to get fucked and I always had a good time coming in her. I'm with someone now who I enjoy sex way more with, and she comes pretty regularly from vaginal. Now I find myself getting pushed out when she comes because she gets way too sensitive, or alternatively thinking about baseball until I can get her off (if I'm feeling like being a nice guy.) It's kind of freeing to not have to deal with vaginal orgasms at all.
 
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I do not think that it´s true that size does not matter and that it´s all about the technique.

My current GF has hat lots of Orgasm Problems in the past and never came during Sex, only solo with a Wand Vibrator.

When whe have Sex, she can cumm by just riding my dick , so no technique of mine involved.

I am bigger than her BFs before and I can not imagine that she did not cumm because they were all lousy livers with bad techniques...
 

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only a minority of women orgasm from intercourse alone and not always.
only a minority of women orgasm from hitting their fornex (cul-de-sac)
most men are too short to get there with most women. therefore, many women don't know whether this works for them or not.
 

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I don't believe the OP, noway that he has a 7"x6".
Probably a 6"x5", and then she can feel "loose".
But with a 6" girth no woman will feel loose, even when she had the day before a 6.5" girth.
I'm smaller in lenght and girth - but didn't have that experience in my sexlife.
If she didn t cum during intercourse, she is honest, and she's more into clitoral stimulation.
So more fore-play...
 

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I don't believe the OP, noway that he has a 7"x6".
Probably a 6"x5", and then she can feel "loose".
But with a 6" girth no woman will feel loose, even when she had the day before a 6.5" girth.
I'm smaller in lenght and girth - but didn't have that experience in my sexlife.
If she didn t cum during intercourse, she is honest, and she's more into clitoral stimulation.
So more fore-play...

I agree - I'm just a little under 6" around at my hardest erection (15cm around.. 5.9" converted) - and I've never been with a woman who I felt was "loose". I've been with women who felt like they had a pretty small vagina, and some with really short ones (so it feels like my dick's just getting bent and pushed back in to my body when they're on top -- not great :p ), but never one that felt anything close to cavernous.

I've read that if you're a death-grip masturbater, where you just squeeze it as hard as you can, that can make pussy feel loose. No vagina in the world can feel as tight as an average man's tightest grip, so if you have poor masturbatory technique that could account for loose feelings.
 

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I'm starting to figure out...

I had a discution with her about size and vaginal orgasms. After that she compared my cock with her exes. She indicated me that he was almoast 1 inch in lenght and 1.5 inches in girth bigger than me, with a nice huge head. That's almoast 8x7 compared to mine, and it's massive, I guess...

She said that after aprox 30 min of sex with him, she was done with her pussy crushin and pulsating, finishing with a mindblowing orgasm. Her entire vagina was filled and stimulated. The pleasure came form all directions.
I think that she's a girth size queen.

I can't figure how I gonna give her first vaginal orgasm. I tried everything.
It seem's that size does really matters for this kind of size queens.

I don't have much to say. If you know the way, please show me.

Cheers.
 
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slow down. and stop worrying about it. and even though its great that she told you that, its not a competition between you or the other guy. if she cared more about that she'd be with the other guy. so just do the best to make sure you enjoy each other and eventually it will happen. when men obsess about what other men have done to me etc. it gives me the proverbial 'headache'
 

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Everyone's different, there's no right or wrong. It's generally all about clit stim for me, the only time I've had vaginal orgasms was with a partner who was blessed with stamina and a big 'un!

Seriously? Don't worry about it, if clit stim works then just go with it.
 

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I dont believe that size is an Issue, It do believe that it has to do with how you use it as well as the connection between you and the other person. I am a mulit orgasm girl and I can have them always as long as the person knows what they are doing I have had some big and some small. It has nothing to do with size if they had no clue with how to use it i was left hangin and very disappointed.
I was just in a relationship and He was average in length and not a girthy cock, But the minute I would start to slide down his cock and got all the way down all he had to do is grab my hips and move them ever so slightly and it was a waterfall.. It was on top of everything else i was feeling. I could only take the top for about 10 mins before I became lightheaded... It was the most amazing wonderful sex I have ever had.
We had mild foreplay before we would have sex by watching some porn.talking, just rubbing each other it never had to be intense with him before hand cause the intercourse part of it was beyond intense.
 

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I dont believe that size is an Issue, It do believe that it has to do with how you use it as well as the connection between you and the other person. I am a mulit orgasm girl and I can have them always as long as the person knows what they are doing I have had some big and some small. It has nothing to do with size if they had no clue with how to use it i was left hangin and very disappointed.
I was just in a relationship and He was average in length and not a girthy cock, But the minute I would start to slide down his cock and got all the way down all he had to do is grab my hips and move them ever so slightly and it was a waterfall.. It was on top of everything else i was feeling. I could only take the top for about 10 mins before I became lightheaded... It was the most amazing wonderful sex I have ever had.
We had mild foreplay before we would have sex by watching some porn.talking, just rubbing each other it never had to be intense with him before hand cause the intercourse part of it was beyond intense.

lovely to hear.

btw love your gallery xx
 

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chemistry between the two people and the brain are the most important factors between them to achieve an orgasm. If either isn't there chances are a king kong sized penis won't get her off
 

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I'm only packing 6 and I can make my wife cum, and my wife has taken a 9 and the guy couldn't make her cum. I can get her to have a vaginal orgasm depending on the atmosphere/mood although I'm not always lucky. Normally when I'm being really sexual with kissing, rubbing, touching, talking- everything plays its part. I try to own her mind while I'm inside her and it works. Plus you gotta lay off the clit during oral, tease it sometimes when you're going downtown get her close to climax for about a day or two with no orgasm then give her the cock on the third day, it works for me. It's so mental!
 

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chemistry between the two people and the brain are the most important factors between them to achieve an orgasm. If either isn't there chances are a king kong sized penis won't get her off

Yes, but that's a part of the equation. Chemistry, skills and size are the trinity for holier than holy shit sex for us. MrsR can cum from initial penetration (size + chemistry), deep spot penetration (size + chemistry + skills), nipple stimulation (skills), clit stimulation (her skills more than anything), g-spot stim (skills), orally (skills), neck biting/sucking (chemistry), etc.