Vaginal vs Anal: No Multiple Anal Orgasms?

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  1. petite

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    I've noticed that with anal orgasms, helped along with clitoral stimulation, I'm done after just one. I'm not only completely finished, it's as if I instantly lose all interest in all sex for a while.

    I have to say that it is a deeply satisfying orgasm, but I've never experienced anything like it before.

    Now, normally I am multiply orgasmic, if I'm just playing with my clit or vagina. I'll cum and still feel aroused, even though I might need a moment to recover. If I'm watching porn while I am masturbating, it's still mesmerizing to me, and I can't wait to go again.

    TheBF has told me about how when he masturbates, he loses all interest in watching porn or in sex immediately after he cums, which is what it's like after I have an orgasm from anal play. If I am watching porn while I masturbate anally, the moment after I have an orgasm from anal play, I've lost all interest in seeing any more. I just want to turn it off and do something else. I am no longer aroused at all.

    I've learned that when we're stretching out my bottom to prepare for anal sex, I should "edge" because if I let myself orgasm before we have sex together, then I'll lose all interest in actually doing it with him. Unlike when we're having vaginal sex where I'm seeking orgasm after orgasm as quickly as possible, I hold back my orgasm until he's ready so that I enjoy it for as long as he does.

    I'm curious. Does any other woman experienced this phenomenon? Or is this just something that I experience?
     
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    I've never noticed it before, which I'm guessing means I don't experience it. I could be wrong though :biggrin1:
     
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    So you can have orgasm after orgasm while having anal sex? And you aren't like, "Okay, I'm all done," after the first one?
     
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    Well, I think so. I've never noticed being all done.
     
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    Interesting!

    I'm newer to it than you are, it's just that I've never experienced having my sexual arousal turn off that fast, like a light switch, and it reminded me of TheBF's description of his experience after he cums.

    I hope that this thread doesn't just end up being you and me! I just realized that I don't think many LPSG women enjoy anal sex.
     
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    The nature of subgirrl is truly irrepressible!!!!!!!

    Multiple Assgasms, & orgasms - I really think that guys are missing out here. It's actually starting to get a little depressing:frown1:.

    On the plus side Petite, if the BF only fancies a quickie & you to get him a cold beer & a sandwich straight away afterwards - he knows just what to do!

    It sounds like you're having an experience which often happens to men.

    It's a bit like being in a dazy haze on smack & someone injects you with Narcol (so I hear:smile:)- & (argh excuse the metaphor) it's like you've been ripped from the womb -cold, distant & detatched.

    Which is why women feel men are often cold uncaring bastards after sex, when it's simply biology.

    On the plus side ladies - if it's been an afternoon session, it's a good time to get them to do all those odd jobs that they haven't done! I even got on a 30ft ladder & cleaned someone's guttering once - I don't even like heights!
     
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    :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:
     
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    Anal orgasms rule and are much more intense than vaginal. I can cum like a sewing machine doing anal.
     
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    After I climax, I can't wait until he's ready to pull out of me, and almost always talk him into taking off the condom and letting me blow him.
     
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    I usually have my first anal orgasm with clit stimulation. But after I am able to climax again with out anything additional. After the session is over now that I am thinking back, I would end it after we both climax or at least shower together before continuing.
     
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    Ha! He usually makes something yummy and brings it to me after we have sex, not the other way around. Do I have a good man or what? :biggrin1:

    That's what I thought, it sounds exactly like what TheBF says he experiences, but it looks like I might be alone in experiencing the post anal-O shutdown.

    Like a sewing machine? I'm sorry, I'm confused about whether you've answered yes to multiple anal Os or not. Is that one long orgasm or multiple orgasms?

    That "can't wait until he's ready to pull out of me" feeling, I get that, too, but it's not because I want to blow him right away (which I usually really enjoy) it's because I don't want him inside me any more.

    It sounds like you're a single anal O person, too?

    You also have multiple anal Os then.
     
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    i have never had anal sex with a penis, but i havent experienced a regular shut-down with the orgasms ive achieved by anal stimulation (usually with toys).

    however, i do have a caveat: lately ive noticed every now and then i have a shut down after one usually clitoral orgasm. the last time it happened i'd been that kind of crazy horny all day....you know, THAT kinda horny.....and by the time i got to do something about it after the 1 clitoral orgasm i was too sensitive too touch after that because id been throbby mcthrobberson all day (im not typically like that, too sensitive after). while i was waiting to have another, i fell asleep from sheer exhaustion (i was incredibly tired that day).

    this happens occasionally.
     
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    Ok. Without the need to start a new thread, & because my interest is now picqued...

    What is the best way to give a woman an assgasm?

    I must be doing it wrong (though not for me!). It always seems to hurt them when I put it in (that said some women seem to be in pain, then say "why have you stopped, I was enjoying that" - confusing!), no matter how much lube, & pretty much all the time if I start any kind of semi vigorous movement.

    There are periods of time when they enjoy it a lot, but I always take this as a signal to start cranking it up.

    So please help me, & the woman in my life.

    An A-Z of anal please!
     
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    Maybe that's what's going on, it's just so intense that I'm "done" after. My anal Os are extremely strong. I think it's all the stimulation all at once that does it. I can't wait to try DP with a rabbit vibrator toy, because that may just kill me. :biggrin1: I've been meaning to try it for weeks and weeks now, but I haven't been able to find the toy that I've been wanting to do it with ever since we went out of town and I took it with us. I'm a little bit paranoid that I left it in the hotel room. :frown1:

    The idea that having an "anal orgasm" would be more like a "male orgasm" sounds silly to me because I think that the differences between male and female experiences are probably much more complex than that, so I thought it was really weird that for the first time ever my experience of orgasm sounds like what TheBF has told me about his experience of orgasm.
     
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    Alrighty. I'll write it out one last time!

    We tried a lot of different things and it took a lot of experimentation before we discovered what worked for us, so I'll write down what worked and didn't work for us and I'll put a link here and in my signature. That way the next time someone asks for large penis anal sex advice, I can just say, "I wrote it down here. Follow this link."
     
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    The 'shut down' of wanting no more sensation, even going right to sleep, is quite a random phenomenon for me. It is linked to no particular sort of stimulus leading to the orgasm(s) but I know that multiples will wear me out and get me to beg my partner for a breather.

    Sometimes intense orgasm leaves one in a blank state very like oblivion, sometimes it has a 'downhill' into smaller orgasms first.

    My stamina is not like it once was, and it has to do with my overall aerobic health, sadly. I need to walk and exercise more despite the arthritis, just do get the work done around here. That will lead to better ability to play as well, I am sure.
     
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    Aw, c'mon petite! Don't you want to say it for the millionth time? The billionth?! Lol. Actually that sounds likea good idea. :biggrin1::tongue:
     
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