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Friend 1 - Guys, you know Jade? She's got vaginismus, I don't know what to do. Should I help her out or just dump to avoid blueballs and emotional mess?
The first thought I had when I heard it was "Wow, has our societal standards dropped so low that we don't even want to help a partner through a serious problem?"
The guy isn't really a close friend but I'd feel uncomfortable knowing that he may potentially leave his mrs because she can't engage in sexual intercourse (Vaginal, anyway) and in my eyes it just isn't right.
I understand sex can be an important factor in relationships but should it really be a deal maker/breaker or am I just looking at this the wrong way? Surely if he really cares he'd atleast make an effort to help her?
Anybody have experience with vaginismus? I can't say I've ever come across a woman who does but then again it may be more common than I think?
Friend 1 - Guys, you know Jade? She's got vaginismus, I don't know what to do. Should I help her out or just dump to avoid blueballs and emotional mess?
The first thought I had when I heard it was "Wow, has our societal standards dropped so low that we don't even want to help a partner through a serious problem?"
The guy isn't really a close friend but I'd feel uncomfortable knowing that he may potentially leave his mrs because she can't engage in sexual intercourse (Vaginal, anyway) and in my eyes it just isn't right.
I understand sex can be an important factor in relationships but should it really be a deal maker/breaker or am I just looking at this the wrong way? Surely if he really cares he'd atleast make an effort to help her?
Anybody have experience with vaginismus? I can't say I've ever come across a woman who does but then again it may be more common than I think?