Varieties of Vaginal Orgasms? How do you know which one you're having?

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mercurialbliss said:
Segasaurus-do you know about kegel exercises? If so, are you practicing? They do wonders for strengthening the vaginal walls and pelvic muscles. The stronger they are, the more sensation women experience during intercourse


Thank you. Yes, I'm doing Kegels. Actually I'm doing Kegels with resistance training using Gyneflex on one day and Stone Egg exercises on the other. I've definitely noticed the increase in intensity of my orgasms as I tone up.


Hopefully one day I'll be multiply orgasmic. Hell, at this rate I'll be grateful for ONE vaginal orgasm. I always feel so envious of vaginally orgasmic women. I feel like a someone blind from birth hearing other people describe colors. There's nothing to which I can grasp onto to relate since everyone says clitoral orgasms are nothing like vaginal ones and vaginal are the better of the two. :frown1:
 

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Gisella said:
OMG...how many orgasme there are StudHunter?:confused:

In my case never had clit ones..or cervix ones...

How many kinds of orgasms? Let's see. Basically I think there's 3 kinds - clit, g-spot and cervical. But like some others have said, the clit extends inside the body, so it is possible to have an orgasm that seems vaginal (from sex) but is still a clit orgasm. I know I get sometimes get orgasms from labia-tugging during sex, and this is still a clit orgasm since the labia is connected to the outside part of the clit.
I guess I'm lucky I've had all 3 kinds of orgasms, but by far the most common for me are g-spot and clit-labia. I've only had a few cervical orgasms.
Thank you for continuing to give me an excuse to talk about orgasms, by alltime favorite subject!:biggrin1: :tongue:
 

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stud_hunter said:
How many kinds of orgasms? Let's see. Basically I think there's 3 kinds - clit, g-spot and cervical. But like some others have said, the clit extends inside the body, so it is possible to have an orgasm that seems vaginal (from sex) but is still a clit orgasm. I know I get sometimes get orgasms from labia-tugging during sex, and this is still a clit orgasm since the labia is connected to the outside part of the clit.
I guess I'm lucky I've had all 3 kinds of orgasms, but by far the most common for me are g-spot and clit-labia. I've only had a few cervical orgasms.
Thank you for continuing to give me an excuse to talk about orgasms, by alltime favorite subject!:biggrin1: :tongue:

:biggrin1: :cool:

Keep talking StudH im learning...

I wish to have a clit one without penis inside to feel the difference...

Thanks...:wink:
 

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I just want to say, how cool, how fun, and how knowledgeable all this discussion about female orgasms is.
I am reading from the sidelines, and learning at the same time.

Keep it up girls.

Thumbs up:biggthumpup:
 

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Segasaurus said:
There may also be others that I'm unaware of - if so please tell me. I've also noticed I feel a very pleasurable spot approximately 3.5 - 4 inches in anally but have no idea what this area is called. Is there a female equivalent to a prostate? Is that why this particular spot feels good when I rub it with my 5 inch vibrator (vibe does double-duty until I get a job and get some spare cash to get real dildos, etc).

I've never been able to ejaculate either. Does g-spot stimulation typically require intense constant pressure? Tapping pressure? No pressure, just rubbing instead? Or something else entirely?
Although I am not a women and have no experience about how they feel I believe that I can answer some of your questions about orgasms.
Orgasms are one of my favourite subjects and I continuously find out all I can about them in order to give my partners as much pleasure as possible.

It sounds like that special spot you found is called the "AFE zone" -Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone which has only recently been discovered by a doctor in Kuala Lumpur.
It is a rough "zone" on the anal (opposite to g-spot) side of the vagina, that is full of nerve endings. This zone is stimulated by friction whereas the g-spot by pressure. (Google it to find out more detail) When you stimulate it anally I think that pressing the zone from behind will give you pleasure because it will rub against the opposite side of the vagina and maybe even the cervix causing friction.
Before I discovered what it was, I had noticed that certain positions gave intense pleasure and orgasms to my lovers without any clit or g-spot and epicenter contact. (e.g. Doggy style)

I made most lovers ejaculate by stimulating the g-spot, however it was also possible by clitoral stimulation alone.
The g-spot responds best to quite a lot of pressure, if my lover was on her back, I would press with an upward pointing finger on the rough g-spot area and use a tapping or fucking action. I found that it was better for her to have a clit orgasm first before doing this.

A man can reach the main orgasm trigger zones easily with his fingers, pulling your legs up to your chest will make it easier to reach so there is no need to do anything to shorten your vagina!

Studhunter, when you say cervical orgasms, how do you get them?
When I was clueless, I used to stimulate the round dome of the cervix (thinking it was the g-spot) but never brought a woman to orgasm that way.
When I learned about the epicenter - the corner where the g-spot side of the vagina meets the cervix. I would firmly press there whilst licking the clit. I would notice the longest lasting, most intense of orgasms. I could also feel those deep uterine contractions with my fingers, is this what you mean by a cervical orgasm?
 

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I am going to have to print out this whole thread (and clip the names out just in case) to share with whoever my next partner is..

Hee!
 

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mellowmal said:
I am going to have to print out this whole thread (and clip the names out just in case) to share with whoever my next partner is..

Hee!

Since we are the students in this "conference" on female orgasms, .... perhaps I am the indicated "partner" mellowmal....:scool:
 

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pichulon said:
Since we are the students in this "conference" on female orgasms, .... perhaps I am the indicated "partner" mellowmal....:scool:

Well, one never knows!

Doing much travelling this summer? :biggrin1:
 

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dongalong said:
When I learned about the epicenter - the corner where the g-spot side of the vagina meets the cervix. I would firmly press there whilst licking the clit. I would notice the longest lasting, most intense of orgasms. I could also feel those deep uterine contractions with my fingers, is this what you mean by a cervical orgasm?

Yup. That's a cervical orgasm. Well done :biggrin1: . You must have long fingers. The few cervical orgasms I've had have been from deep penetration.
 

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mellowmal said:
Well, one never knows!

Doing much travelling this summer? :biggrin1:

Will be in DC in October.

I always wanted to know the noth east.....
and nice weather to enjoy the indoors.......:cool:

say we make some plans???
 

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Good heavens.

It looks like I now need to add T-zone Orgasms to the preceding list! WTF?!!

4 different types of vaginal orgasms and counting? Damn it! And I'm having only one - clitoral. Gisella I really wish I could trade with you! You got the better deal by far!

Has anyone ever heard of a woman becoming vaginally orgasmic for the first time in her late 30's to 40's? :(

I am so frustrated! Is there any hope for me?

Edit: And now we can make that 2 clitoral. Add U-spot to the list. Though it sounds like A-Spot and Epicenter are the same thing.

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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]The U-Spot. This is a small patch of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is absent just below the urethra, in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. Less well known than the clitoris, its erotic potential was only recently investigated by American clinical research workers. They found that if this region was gently caressed, with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there was an unexpectedly powerful erotic response.

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[/FONT][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]The A-Spot, AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the 'female degenerated prostate'. (In other words, it is the female equivalent of the male prostate, just as the clitoris is the female equivalent of the male penis.) Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity.[/FONT]
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]Its existence was reported by a Malaysian physician in Kuala Lumpur as recently as the 1990s. There has been some mis-reporting about it, and its precise position has been incorrectly described by several writers. Its true location is just above the cervix, at the innermost point of the vagina. The cervix of the uterus is the narrow part that protrudes slightly into the vagina, leaving a circular recess around itself. The front part of this recess is called the anterior fornix. Pressure on it produces rapid lubrication of the vagina, even in women who are not normally sexually responsive. It is now possible to buy a special AFE vibrator – long thin and upward curved at its end, to probe this zone.[/FONT]
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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]Students of female sexual physiology claim (perhaps over-enthusiastically) that if these four erotic centres are stimulated in rotation, one after the other, it is possible for a woman to enjoy many orgasms in a single night. It is pointed out, however, that it takes an extremely experienced and sensitive lover to achieve this. [/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]It has been claimed that two out of every three women fail to reach regular orgasms from simple penetrative sex. As mentioned above, most of them find that only digital or oral stimulation of the clitoris can be guaranteed to bring them to climax. This must mean that, for them, the two 'hot spots' inside the vagina are not living up to their name. The reason for this, it seems, is monotony in sexual positioning. A group of 27 couples were asked to vary their sexual positions experimentally, employing postures that would allow greater stimulation of the two vaginal 'hot spots', and it was found that three-quarters of the females involved were then able to achieve regular vaginal orgasms.

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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]Desmond Morris, The Naked Woman: A Study of the Female Body, Jonathan Cape, London (2004).


Looks like I need to buy that book!
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pichulon said:
Will be in DC in October.

I always wanted to know the noth east.....
and nice weather to enjoy the indoors.......:cool:

say we make some plans???

Conveniently enough, my birthday is in October.. Explorations in orgasms would make for a nice birthday celebration...

Hmmmm!

:wink:
 

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mellowmal said:
Conveniently enough, my birthday is in October.. Explorations in orgasms would make for a nice birthday celebration...

Hmmmm!

:wink:
I will make sure I am ready for the occassion. I will try on long black trousers , and, no shirt, only a black bow tie , a la Chippendales..... all yours:eek:
 

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Segasaurus said:
Good heavens.

It looks like I now need to add T-zone Orgasms to the preceding list! WTF?!!

4 different types of vaginal orgasms and counting? Damn it! And I'm having only one - clitoral. Gisella I really wish I could trade with you! You got the better deal by far!

I read that link about the T-zone, that is the place I would press to give the cervical orgasms. For me it is another name for the Epicenter.

Segasaurus, there are things that you can do to become more orgasmic,

- Exercising your vaginal muscles with a vibrating egg. Insert it and try and move it in and out just by using the muscles down there. Turning on the vibrations will eventually desensitize and make you less responsive to a guy giving you pleasure so keep it for the moments when you really need it.

- Squeezing your vaginal muscles during love making. This presses all your nerve ending against to penis and like a guy who suffers from premature ejaculation, being tensed up can accelerate the orgasm build up. It will also feel great for your lover but will make him come fast so watch his reactions.

- You can buy Chinese herbal teas which are supposed to make women more responsive during lovemaking. They improve the circulation around the vagina which improves the sensitivity.

Yes stud_hunter, I do have quite long fingers but on some women a sex toy is more effective to give the right amount of pressure.
 

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Segasaurus said:
Good heavens.

It looks like I now need to add T-zone Orgasms to the preceding list! WTF?!!

4 different types of vaginal orgasms and counting? Damn it! And I'm having only one - clitoral. Gisella I really wish I could trade with you! You got the better deal by far!

Has anyone ever heard of a woman becoming vaginally orgasmic for the first time in her late 30's to 40's? :(

I am so frustrated! Is there any hope for me?

Edit: And now we can make that 2 clitoral. Add U-spot to the list. Though it sounds like A-Spot and Epicenter are the same thing.

quote:

[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]The U-Spot. This is a small patch of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is absent just below the urethra, in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. Less well known than the clitoris, its erotic potential was only recently investigated by American clinical research workers. They found that if this region was gently caressed, with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there was an unexpectedly powerful erotic response.

[/FONT]
[/FONT][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]The A-Spot, AFE-zone or Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone. Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the 'female degenerated prostate'. (In other words, it is the female equivalent of the male prostate, just as the clitoris is the female equivalent of the male penis.) Direct stimulation of this spot can produce violent orgasmic contractions. Unlike the clitoris, it is not supposed to suffer from post-orgasmic over-sensitivity.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]
[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]Its existence was reported by a Malaysian physician in Kuala Lumpur as recently as the 1990s. There has been some mis-reporting about it, and its precise position has been incorrectly described by several writers. Its true location is just above the cervix, at the innermost point of the vagina. The cervix of the uterus is the narrow part that protrudes slightly into the vagina, leaving a circular recess around itself. The front part of this recess is called the anterior fornix. Pressure on it produces rapid lubrication of the vagina, even in women who are not normally sexually responsive. It is now possible to buy a special AFE vibrator – long thin and upward curved at its end, to probe this zone.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]
[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]Students of female sexual physiology claim (perhaps over-enthusiastically) that if these four erotic centres are stimulated in rotation, one after the other, it is possible for a woman to enjoy many orgasms in a single night. It is pointed out, however, that it takes an extremely experienced and sensitive lover to achieve this. [/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]It has been claimed that two out of every three women fail to reach regular orgasms from simple penetrative sex. As mentioned above, most of them find that only digital or oral stimulation of the clitoris can be guaranteed to bring them to climax. This must mean that, for them, the two 'hot spots' inside the vagina are not living up to their name. The reason for this, it seems, is monotony in sexual positioning. A group of 27 couples were asked to vary their sexual positions experimentally, employing postures that would allow greater stimulation of the two vaginal 'hot spots', and it was found that three-quarters of the females involved were then able to achieve regular vaginal orgasms.

[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, Univers, sans-serif]Desmond Morris, The Naked Woman: A Study of the Female Body, Jonathan Cape, London (2004).


Looks like I need to buy that book!
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Good old Desmond Morris. He is a zoologist who presented a BBCtv programme in the '60s called ZOO TIME. My parents bought his best selling book, The Naked Ape, back in the late '60s or early '70s. I learned SO much about sex from that book. Another of his books I read was Manwatching. My friend, anthropologist Ted Polhemus, was always pointing out that Desmond Morris was out of his territory in Manwatching and wrong about a lot of stuff. I think 'Whatever'. Desmond Morris has done masses to raise awareness about human behaviour issues and there cannot be perfect demarkation between zoology, anthropology, sociology, etc. so authors must be forgiven.

When my wife became pregnant with our son (in 1992) I went into a book shop and came out with a great little book on child rearing by Mirriam Stoppard and a Desmond Morris book called Babywatching. The latter was such an inspiration. Morris empowered my wife and I to take a natural approach to having the baby, and to reassure the midwives and doctors in the hospital that we were doing ok and not to intervene unless we got into serious trouble. Her labour was very long and exhausting, but I was fully involved and we got there in the end. Lynn didn't need any stitches because she had taken time to stretch and the baby came out fine - in fact, he was perfect. He wasn't covered in blood or anything. He was clean, calm and looking around. He was so calm that the midwife was worried as she hadn't heard him make a sound, so she handled him a bit roughly and he let out a little squeek. Then she was satisfied, delighted and proud of us. Writing this is making me cry because I'm re-living the moment I held him in my arms for the first time and we bonded. I'll never forget his direct gaze and the power of love I felt at that moment. I'm also crying, because Lynn is in the next room, exhausted from the first of a course of chemo therapy she had on Thursday. I have been wondering about starting a thread on this but it's so 'off topic' for LPSG. Anyway, I consider you guys and girls to be friends and... Lynn had a nasty grade 3 cancer 2.5 years ago. She had mastectomy plus chemo and radio therapy. However she has recently developed inflammatory breast cancer in her remaining breast and some break out of the first cancer around her mastectomy scar. This isn't good. So she's back on chemo (including Herceptin for the next year). I was a bit fragile anyway because I lost my Dad last month. (My mum died of breast cancer in '95.) so it's tough dealing with what's happening to Lynn. I'm sure you get the picture. Our son Tom is dealing with it all amazingy well. He's in his room, playing his Les Paul and singing (growl
ing) along to Slipknot and Trivium - all blood and thunder. Oh what it is to be a 14yo! (I do wonder if his calm and loving birth experience helped him to be so 'grounded'? I was born in the 50's in one of those hospitals where starched white nurses whisked the babies away and put it straight in cots away from the mothers. It's no wonder I have a tendency towards anxiety!)

I'm holding up ok really. I just wanted to communicate something that isn't about big cocks to some of you people who are interested in relationships, emotions, life and love. Please girls, check your breasts regularly.
Love Henry (Riven650)
 

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I didn't intend to hikack (or freeze) this thread by posting 'off topic' and personal stuff. So I'll go on: My wife and I are both very interested in this subject and have a lot of experience to offer (she used to write regularly for FORUM and had a column in UK Penthouse, so sex and relationships is one of our pet subjects). We think this stuff about these different types of female orgasm is very interesting, but we're worried that you can easily get hung up on the technical and lose sight of (and miss out on) the spontaneous and natural side of love making. It's just like guys obsessing about comparing penis sizes when they really would be better off just getting on and enjoying the fun you can have with your penis - whatever size or shape it is. Or how many different and therefore separately catagoriasable types of orgasm you can have..... Are you listening Segasaurus ? :tongue:
(Of course you're not listening now - you're fast asleep on the other side of the planet.:eek:))
 

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Riven650 said:
Good old Desmond Morris. He is a zoologist who presented a BBCtv programme in the '60s called ZOO TIME. My parents bought his best selling book, The Naked Ape, back in the late '60s or early '70s. I learned SO much about sex from that book. Another of his books I read was Manwatching. My friend, anthropologist Ted Polhemus, was always pointing out that Desmond Morris was out of his territory in Manwatching and wrong about a lot of stuff. I think 'Whatever'. Desmond Morris has done masses to raise awareness about human behaviour issues and there cannot be perfect demarkation between zoology, anthropology, sociology, etc. so authors must be forgiven.

When my wife became pregnant with our son (in 1992) I went into a book shop and came out with a great little book on child rearing by Mirriam Stoppard and a Desmond Morris book called Babywatching. The latter was such an inspiration. Morris empowered my wife and I to take a natural approach to having the baby, and to reassure the midwives and doctors in the hospital that we were doing ok and not to intervene unless we got into serious trouble. Her labour was very long and exhausting, but I was fully involved and we got there in the end. Lynn didn't need any stitches because she had taken time to stretch and the baby came out fine - in fact, he was perfect. He wasn't covered in blood or anything. He was clean, calm and looking around. He was so calm that the midwife was worried as she hadn't heard him make a sound, so she handled him a bit roughly and he let out a little squeek. Then she was satisfied, delighted and proud of us. Writing this is making me cry because I'm re-living the moment I held him in my arms for the first time and we bonded. I'll never forget his direct gaze and the power of love I felt at that moment. I'm also crying, because Lynn is in the next room, exhausted from the first of a course of chemo therapy she had on Thursday. I have been wondering about starting a thread on this but it's so 'off topic' for LPSG. Anyway, I consider you guys and girls to be friends and... Lynn had a nasty grade 3 cancer 2.5 years ago. She had mastectomy plus chemo and radio therapy. However she has recently developed inflammatory breast cancer in her remaining breast and some break out of the first cancer around her mastectomy scar. This isn't good. So she's back on chemo (including Herceptin for the next year). I was a bit fragile anyway because I lost my Dad last month. (My mum died of breast cancer in '95.) so it's tough dealing with what's happening to Lynn. I'm sure you get the picture. Our son Tom is dealing with it all amazingy well. He's in his room, playing his Les Paul and singing (growl
ing) along to Slipknot and Trivium - all blood and thunder. Oh what it is to be a 14yo! (I do wonder if his calm and loving birth experience helped him to be so 'grounded'? I was born in the 50's in one of those hospitals where starched white nurses whisked the babies away and put it straight in cots away from the mothers. It's no wonder I have a tendency towards anxiety!)

I'm holding up ok really. I just wanted to communicate something that isn't about big cocks to some of you people who are interested in relationships, emotions, life and love. Please girls, check your breasts regularly.
Love Henry (Riven650)

Thank you for sharing, Henry. Your story touched me deeply. I encourage you to start a thread in Et Cetera, Et Cetera on this subject. I'll happily contribute (several members of my family battled various forms of cancer). You need support right now; allow us to give you as much as possible.