I began in part because my guy got upset when he learned I've never had a vaginal orgasm of any kind. He wanted to know how I'd gone so long without one. It just floored him. And then he started to worry that he wouldn't satisfy me. :frown1:Riven650 said:
To clarify:
I'm not asking any man anywhere at anytime ever to 'give' me a vaginal orgasm. It's not his responsibility. We're just there to have fun together. A vaginal orgasm is a nice bonus but not neccessary.
Somehow I don't think he's gonna listen even though I've stated it publicly in this forum.
But I sure would be like to be able to give them to myself. If it never happens, ok - so be it. I was being honest when I said I'd be disappointed if I never know what they're like. You should read Zaneblue describe hers. And she most definitely has those godly drop-you-to-your-fucking knees vaginal orgasms. She's legendary for them. To the point she's been interviewed by magazines and newspapers around the world. And now the women on her diet/kegel/supplement program are achieving the same thing. She's so successful at it she's won a book contract and getting medical trials going to study why it works.
The majority of women who've gone on her program (that's well over 100 and counting) are now reporting in her diet is a great success (from what I understand anyway). And these were formerly non vaginally orgasmic women.
Except for a handful like me. It's raised my libido a bit - which she predicted it would do. But I'm one of a tiny handful of women for whom we've seen no change in orgasmic ability.
She has said her diet works on women with normal free testosterone levels. But she's stated it will not work for women who have low free testosterone and an imbalance of dopamine. High free testosterone, dopamine levels and suppression of testosterone-binding-hormone (or whatever the hell it's called) are a critical key to vaginal orgasmic ability. You can be toned vaginally like a bodybuilder but without the other 2 pillars (right balance of hormones and good bloodflow to the area) you won't have them. For women with low free testosterone her program won't work unless they go on testosterone replacement therapy.
That's why I stated earlier I wish I could afford to get tests run. I can't so I'm trying to do other things to raise it. Like exercise - particularly weightlifting. It doesn't raise testosterone in women to anywhere near the degree it does it men. But it does raise them. I just hope the binding hormone isn't taking out the extra T weightlifting gives me.
