I hear ya. I'm married, bi, out to my wife, I hit the bath houses, and I have a few exhibitionist bones in my body; but I can't get used to guys who touch me without asking first. I'm very picky, so when a guy who doesn't "make my grade" just reaches out and fondles me, I physically shudder, get those laser-kitty eyes going at him, and sorta nicely (but through gritted teeth) tell him it ain't cool. Once or twice I've had to get all army-ranger on the dude and bring him to his knees with the wrist-cock-pressure point move they taught us a Ft. Benning.
In spas like these, do guys sit on the surface (tiles, wood, recliners) naked with no towel between the skin and the surfaces? Yikes! Aren't you guys worried about bacteria that you might contract from these surfaces?
I guess if you're there to have sex, you could get bugs as well......welll......live and let live!!!
Hot people problems.
Anyone have any experience with hotel spas in Sydney, Australia? (Any recommendations?)
Also does anyone know are the sauna and steam in the Grace Hotel (in Sydney, Australia) separate ones for men and women (are they located in the men's change room area like in many hotels or are they co-ed)?