Vegas Spa Cruising
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Is there a best time on the weekends to be there. More voyeuristic than anything else.
Likewise, haven't quite figured that out myself. I've typically been midday and it's always been pretty busy.
So I have read several accounts of how to play at the spas. As I said earlier, I really had no idea this was going on. I am a complete novice here but wondering is there an etiquette for someone who just wants to watch or maybe touch myself. I don’t want to make others uncomfortable (or stop, kind of defeats the purpose here). I want to be able to be looked at/appreciated but not be a tease. Thoughts?
The protocol, if you don't want to be touched, is to make a wave of your hand or finger toward the guy trying to touch you. If you don't want to participate at all, zombie out - don't watch. If you watch, you'll probably get a tentative touch to see if you're interested.
Thank you. Definitely not interested in going Zombie, just don’t want to be a dick. Trying to get a crash course in the culture. No one wants to feel teased or judged
Given the setting and not having a clue what, if anything, might happen, I wouldn’t worry about being a tease. That may be all some are actually interested in. Then one of those same guys might surprise you an hour or two later and, after an awesome conversation, suddenly lean over and start sucking you... like happened at Qua last week. Oops!
As for feeling judged, it could (and frankly, should) definitely happen to those not reading the room correctly or lacking tact and subtlety. Thing is, the ones often in need of a good judging don’t really seem to care, have forgotten where they are, and won’t take no for an answer; happily following you around like they’ve missed your entire lack of interest.
And yeah, since you never know who you’ll meet, you may meet super polite guys, as I did during my recent visit, who’ll ask “May I taste your... /kiss you”, etc. and respect you and your answer or maybe someone who’ll sit next to you in the tubs and within a minute, try to shove his fingers in your ass without having even said hello. That sort of aggressive behaviour (regardless of how great the guy may look) so isn’t my thing vs interacting and/or chatting with someone and seeing where things go. The tease... the tension and build up when you feel that stirring and know he’s feeling the same way... and *then* hopefully you find the space and opportunity to do something about it. *sigh* Can you tell I was just in Vegas?
Aria and Qua were so good to me again.Sounds live advice from a pro. Really appreciate the thoughts. Can’t wait to put all this new info into practiceGiven the setting and not having a clue what, if anything, might happen, I wouldn’t worry about being a tease. That may be all some are actually interested in. Then one of those same guys might surprise you an hour or two later and, after an awesome conversation, suddenly lean over and start sucking you... like happened at Qua last week. Oops!
As for feeling judged, it could (and frankly, should) definitely happen to those not reading the room correctly or lacking tact and subtlety. Thing is, the ones often in need of a good judging don’t really seem to care, have forgotten where they are, and won’t take no for an answer; happily following you around like they’ve missed your entire lack of interest.
And yeah, since you never know who you’ll meet, you may meet super polite guys, as I did during my recent visit, who’ll ask “May I taste your... /kiss you”, etc. and respect you and your answer or maybe someone who’ll sit next to you in the tubs and within a minute, try to shove his fingers in your ass without having even said hello. That sort of aggressive behaviour (regardless of how great the guy may look) so isn’t my thing vs interacting and/or chatting with someone and seeing where things go. The tease... the tension and build up when you feel that stirring and know he’s feeling the same way... and *then* hopefully you find the space and opportunity to do something about it. *sigh* Can you tell I was just in Vegas?
Would’ve been great to run into you last week!
I definitely enjoy a chill spa day, and though I wouldn’t say I’m a pro when it comes to some of the things that have happened... lol, the learning how to navigate around/avoid the trolls has certainly helped out during more recent visits.
Let us know how things go!
Absolutely will do. Next time at qua (or other) spa I will let all my “helpful instructors” know
The spa is so spread out that it's one of the few places that I actually feel comfortable staying for two hours. Little bit of relaxation, little bit of play. The pools and that awesome central shower at Qua and all the chairs around are the ultimate exhibitionists dream. Nobody can really ever bother you in there or make you feel uncomfortable, very easy environment. Different story back in the saunas and the cold room where it's tough to shake "that guy".
Had an unbelievable 10 minutes in that very dark steam room with two other guys.....we all wanted center stage with that shower that was in the middle and it was fun to watch. 3 exhibitionists in one room and nobody made a move on any one. Just preening and water pouring over hard bodies that needed to be cooled and ridiculous sexual tension. Ugh.
Had an unbelievable 10 minutes in that very dark steam room with two other guys.....we all wanted center stage with that shower that was in the middle and it was fun to watch. 3 exhibitionists in one room and nobody made a move on any one. Just preening and water pouring over hard bodies that needed to be cooled and ridiculous sexual tension. Ugh.
If anyone wants to play, I’ll be at Aria Spa tomorrow morning (Jul 31) till about 9am before my convention starts.
Is anyone planning on being at the Encore or Qua spas this Sunday early afternoon, visiting one but not sure which at this stage
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