Dr. Dilznick said:
I can't possibly be the only one on here who wants to stomp the lard out of Freddie53, can I?
The number of comments was annoying, yes. I don't know if I would go so far as to want to stomp anyone, without knowing him personally. I am curious as to the "casual" nature in throwing the word out. Without more information, it seems like someone who quotes bits from "Blazing Saddles" to me just to get to use the slur "nigger" to my face...
I have a process that I use, when I have accidentally offended someone; perhaps others can benefit from it. I say:
"I'm sorry you are upset. I was not aware that my lack of clarity in this communication would lead to this confusion."
I have found this to be a sincere apology, that does not require me to retract my statement.