When I pump, I usually use Jergens penetrating lotion. That usually helps alot with the "Donut" effect if I'm going overboard.
I dunno - I always thought that if I had a good healthy penetrating lotion to make the skin pliable, I would be better off.
Mabee look at your technique. It might not be right on.
I haven't Jelq'd much, only pumped and stretched so I cant comment too much.
I know that pumping worked for me, but I would believe that any healthy exercise to stretch the susp. ligament would help.
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