Overall my husband and I have a good relationship. He does have a lot of issues we are working on due to past abuses(yes, plural) but I knew that going into the relationship. However something happened the other day that blew my mind. I went to train my dog at a seminar where you pay the guy only if he works with you and your dog. I had stated to my husband I wasn't going to pay him to work my dog. When I got there the club director stated she thought it would be good to have this guy evaluate my dog since he is defensive towards people. This would help to establish a training technique for my dog over the next couple of months. I agreed and paid the guy to work my dog. When explaining this change of mind to my husband he hung up the phone on me and later told me I had lied to him. We have only spoken to each other regarding bills, etc since this incident. My question is, does changing your mind constitute lying? I do not take it lightly to being called a liar since I make it a point in my life to be truthful and my reputation for this speaks for itself. Okay, I'm through with my rant but am still pissed about it.