Very curious question ive wondered for awhile

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Do any of you prefer to just give pleasure rather than always receive it in return?

One of the main things that turned me bi was how some gay guys just like to make another guy feel good without expecting anything in return
 

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A lot of guys been with I enjoy pleasing as well as them pleasing me
But In younger days I often felt like it was my job to please them and it’s not about me not pleasing them.. as long as they are doing what they want. Then we both are pleasing each other..

there’s times I’ve never came during sex.. they get what they want and times I lay there and jerk off after they leave
 

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This is a common misconception. It's not that some men prefer giving pleasure rather than receiving it.

It's that some gay men get more pleasure out of giving than they do receiving. So by giving, you are basically receiving at the same time.

To me, the pleasure is all the feelings during sex.

If I orgasm, I have no interest in sex for a few hours. In the same space of time, I could bring a dozen men to orgasm through a gloryhole or a sex club. So the total time of pleasure is far greater giving than receiving.
 

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Do any of you prefer to just give pleasure rather than always receive it in return?

One of the main things that turned me bi was how some gay guys just like to make another guy feel good without expecting anything in return
I receive pleasure by giving it
 

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I actually love this. Few times in years past I would frequently visit a sex club and just suck guys off for hours usually through gloryholes. Many dudes came from the bars or clubs striking out and just come and get serviced. It would be till 5am that I myself would get sucked off so I can drive home. Servicing a guy only as he kicks back is perfectly fine with me.