Very Rough Sex

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  1. B_penispenispenis37

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    This is a question for women, but men should feel free to add their experiences in here as well.

    I recently put an ad up on craig'slist advertising the services of my cock. A very sexy young asian woman responded telling me should would like to use my cock in front of her boyfriend.

    I'm totally down for this. However, she wants to have very rough sex. She wants me to degrade her in front of her boyfriend. Sweet, I can get down with that. I'm not really an "alpha male" type but have no issue "playing the role" in thi

    So I have no issue with the rough sex. I'm just not sure what to do. I'm the kind of guy that is nice to girls. Sure there is some hairpulling and ass slapping when I have sex sometimes, but its not a general rule. I prefer to make sure she is satisfied - if satisfied means me needing to slap her in the face, I'm there. But most of the time, I don't go past ass slaps.

    So women (and men) what do you like done to you when you have rough sex? She wants me to be verbally abusive. I'm not sure what else to tell her besides stuff about how she is a slut taking my white cock in front of her BF.

    Any tips are appreciated!
     
  2. MickeyLee

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    pre-play negotiation.
    if ya have to make a check list.
    make sure ya cover anything harder than ass-slapping.
    safe words.
    slow words.

    also, set up some safety measures for yaself.
    meeting a couple can be sketchy, even for a dude.
     
  3. B_penispenispenis37

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    Yeah, I've asked her what she wants physically (slapping, choking, hair pulling). That stuff comes naturally, I just never do it because its usually rude :tongue:

    It's the verbal abuse that I'm really tricked out on.

    And we are planning on meeting at a local hotel. Definitely not bringing them to my house or going to theirs.
     
  4. MickeyLee

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    good boy! *pets and rewards* you get a gold star for safety.

    hmm not so much into verbal humiliation.
    ya could check out literotica. focus on humiliation stories and such?

    i would think mostly commenting on size differences between you and her husband.
    how she's breaking vows because of her insatiable appetites.
    making her tell you how much she likes it, in the most vulgar of terms.
    only giving her what she'll beg for. is good for pushing boundaries.
    depersonalization, focus on her body parts, not her as a whole person. pussy, ass, mouth.
    ask her if race play is on the table. is a very sensitive topic, but some folks like it.
    mirrors are good.. when playing in con-non-con i like putting partners in front of mirrors. forcing someone to watch themselves can be wicked. combined with shyness, is bad in good ways.

    i mean there is heaps of ways to turn the screw.. is just most require knowing ya partner well enough not to go to far. and running the risk of sounding like bad porn.

    do you play the humiliation game often?

    is this a "bull" role ya taking on?
     
  5. D_jhtrseikdf

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    "Take it ya fuckin slag!" is always a good opener. "Take yer dinner, here's yer dinner on a fuckin plate."

    Then discuss her with her boyfriend as if she's not there, like she's just a fuck doll. Say "Aww her pussy's tight as fuck mate, how come you aint destroyed this cunt by now?"

    Watch yourself in the mirror and flex, being the big man, cheering yourself on, saying "Go on son! Fuckin ram that cunt"
     
  6. B_penispenispenis37

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    Hahaha, we are in America so no one is calling anyone else a slag.

    She didn't specifically state bull role, but I'm assuming she wants to use me in front of my husband because he is too small and I'm above average, or maybe he just can't fuck.

    I have never played the humiliation game before so it is very interesting, but your tips are unbelievably helpful. And did I mention incredibly sexy? Your ideas are definitely getting me into this type of sex.

    I'm used to doing a lot of teasing and withholding, playful torture with her being tied up and me rubbing my cock on her as she begs for it to be inside of her.
     
  7. MickeyLee

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    glad to be of help, Mr. Penis. now that i am thinking about it.. i might be kinda into verbal humiliation more than i thought. there is something yummy squirmy about crossing over social boundaries/niceties and just getting ugly/bad/dirty.

    is she interested in getting her man into the humiliation play? either co-dom or also humiliating him.

    having her tell him how much she prefers your cock might be good. directing some of your perv-talk toward him. how you're fucking her in ways he can't, how you're pleasing her.. stretching her, how she can barely handle you. how she'll always remember what you did.
     
  8. B_penispenispenis37

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    Please, that is my dad. You can call me Penis :tongue:

    I have seen some cuckholding videos before so I have an idea what to do with that if she is down. To be honest, I'd never thought I'd end up on the other side of it. I have a very nice cock, not huge, big to some, average to the queens. Its funny how much perspective you can lose by hanging out here. So this is pretty exciting for me.

    We plan on meeting next weekend (i.e. a little over a week from now). So I'm gonna sleep on all the tips you guys have provided and will definitely post any updates I have. As well as giving a trip report once all is said and done (and done) :biggrin1:
     
  9. D_jhtrseikdf

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    Try pumping some light weights while you're fuckin her, get the guns angry and show her boyfriend who the big boss is!
     
  10. MickeyLee

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    may the filth talk be with you, Penis :tongue:
    reporting back after is a good reason to break that pesky gentlemen never tell rule.
    just change names and dates to protect the pervie.
     
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    My pal ML has given you some amazing, fantastic advice, ppp37. As an experienced dom who's into a whole menu of extreme sex, it's really all about the consent of the sub. You really need to discuss parameters and expectations before any play gets started. One of the things novices (both dom and sub) frequently don't really understand is that, despite appearances, it's the sub who actually controls the action by setting his/her limits. If it's not consensual then it's assault.

    One of the biggest challenges in humiliation play is keeping it in what I call "the real": overwrought fantasy scenarios just never seem to lift off the ground, at least for me. I find them very tedious, personally. Finding "the real" happens in a spontaneous way when and if you can:

    1) Establish a trust based on chemistry and the negotiated limits; and
    2) Have enough knowledge of the sub's inner strengths and weaknesses enough to exploit them.

    I bundle all forms of erotic expression that fall outside the boundaries of vanilla as extreme sex, and have very few limits, myself, on what I will and will not do (non-consensual and scat are really about it), but I understand that not everyone comes to the play with the same attitude (nor should they). So I can take the humiliation game to levels and areas that others might not (choking, gagging, water sports, for instance); I remember one case where all I had to do was spit on someone to gain a complete submissiveness. Others have required rougher treatment. This is not a one-size-fits-all strategy thing here.

    Good luck, and let us know how it goes.
     
  12. MickeyLee

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    i was hoping Mr. Bbucko would make an appearance in this thread *happy dance*
     
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    I think she is going to be in the fantasy of rough sex rather than actual rough sex. I bet it is going to all be about verbal. Be into yourself and how she can serve you...but also how she is serving you. You can even include her hubby in that you are good with him watching so he knows how to keep her well served. Very cool
     
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    The thread title hit me, and the OP's not just some wank fodder, so I gave it a go :wink:
     
  15. jockmaestro

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    This is both amusing and arousing. First, being a nerd, I will point out that it's "cuckolding"--there's no "h." I only mention it because "cuckholding" sounds a lot like "Cockholding" which seems pertinent.

    What's a "slag"? Is that British for "slut"?

    I myself think a lot of sexual excitement in this situation would depend on the tension and release of getting her to admit what she truly is or truly wants--something she has kept a dirty secret but is now forced to admit in front of her husband and something that only you, the stud, can get her to say because if she doesn't admit it (e.g., that she's a total whore), she won't get your cock, which she craves, and further, she won't get you to fuck her in front of her husband, which apparently she also craves. There's something very satisfying in finally admitting that one is just a craven cock slut.

    I like forcing dudes who suck me off to admit verbally how they can' t live without my cock, and how they'll do anything for it, and how, "yes, I admit it! I admit it!! I crave your cock." In real life, like you, I'm very decent and would never really force someone to do something they don't want to, but I've had experiences where admitting it OUT LOUD is the hottest part of the whole session (well, ALMOST the hottest part!")

    You could consult Nifty Erotic Stories Archive: Gay Male Stories and then click on "Athletics" and then on a series of stories entitled "What I saw." It's gay, but the verbal fireworks might give you ideas.
    Good luck. Let us know how it goes, stud.
     
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    I thought craigslist got rid of their adult section after the craigslist killer fiasco??

     
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    I've found that it is a good idea to ask her (and she can speak for im as well usually) what words are definite turn ons and what words are she HATES. I've had a session turn bad instantly when I said the one word that my partner hated and she was immediately out for the mood. Then again if you know those BIG, nasty filthy words she is dying to hear, holding off until she is ready to peak can just put you all over the edge into pure ecstasy...

    Be sure you know her man's limits too. Sometimes they are different and you don't want some fool leaping over furniture to get to you while you verbally assault his girl. Perhaps tying him down isn't a bad idea :)
     
  18. B_penispenispenis37

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    So she says she is into physical rough sex as well. So we will definitely have to talk about limits.

    I appreciate all the advice, especially from Bbucko. Consent is definitely my number one concern, I'm not interested in doing something someone doesn't want me to do to them. Hopefully I can figure out enough about her to make her really squirm (before I stick it in). Also good call on making sure there are no bad words. Definitely like the advice on tying HIM up :tongue:
     
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    Suggestions:

    Attagirl, beg for my big fucking cock?

    ave you ever had one this big before?

    Im gonna fuck you like a dog so your husband can see real pleasure on your face.

    Do you wanna taste your cum on this big fucking cock?

    Let me see you squeeze your tits if sucking my big cock is making you wet?

    Then slap it on her face and ask if she gets that wet sucking her husbands little dick.

    Also be careful: do you know this isn't the husband answering the ad for his wife?
     
  20. rbkwp

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    What an interesting thread
    I am happy to observe suggestions and comment because with no experiences on the matter, have nothing to contribute, for once hha

    best of luck i am sure as it sounds like it can be a winner all round for everyone

    Thread subscription will suffice in this instance ha

    You sound like a real nice guy and she may well get a decent deal ..bf incl.
    tbh i suspect she may be doing it all for HIS benefit hah
    Cheers
    enz

    and here was kinky i raving on about debauchery (similar thing >>>>) a few days back hahah
     
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