I am really worried that I am gonna be like this for life, please give me some input. About a week ago, I noticed when jacking off it didn't feel as intense as usual and i had a hard time keeping it up. I had a rough week and wasn't feeling my usual self. I had sex a few times with a girl completely comfortable with and she noticed as well and asked why my penis was softer than usual. Twice i went limp with her and couldnt get back up, i told her just wasnt in the mood and we would try again later. She feels it is her fault and is bummed out too, and it is entirely not true (i talked to her). I am 100% positive this isn't performance anxiety as I am very comfortable sexually and even when im by myself. I used to be able to pop a boner whenever I wanted just by thinking of something sexual and could maintain it forever. I had another post, but didn't get the ansnwers I was looking for. I had epididymitis about 3 months ago and had it treated with antibiotics and anti-inflammatories. I felt an occasional tinge of pain of epididymitis so I saw the doctor again and also brought this up. My blood work is perfect all around. Testosterone is 289 which i think might be low but dr. says is fine. My blood pressure was really high and i got put on blood pressure medicine. I eat healthy and exercise a lot, i believe the blood pressure is hereditary. I smoked pot almost once daily for the past 6 months and ive quit for a week now and am planning on staying clean for a long time as it just got old. STD free. I think my bike seat may have caused the epididymits this time as it has been irritating my perenium and i am forced to ride it (and ive tried 3 seats) So as of now i have bp medicine, anti-inflammatories, antibiotics, and i got an ultrasound of testicles ordered. Is there anything i can do in the meantime? I wish my doctor would give me something like viagra or something. I may not have made it clear how much of a problem this is and it is really hurting my feelings. Ive went from having rock hard erections randomly and on command all of a sudden to a 4 on a ten scale erection. Please reassure me i wont be like this for life, i hate it!