Hey, thanks for sharing this with us. My best advice will be, get out there. Yeah, you will suck at the begining but later you will see the results. Start going out with your friends to bars, clubs, coffee places; any place you like to hang out and try to meet people (girls). I'd also suggest start working out; two reasons for this one: first, your testorone level will increase having as a reulst a better you (for the lads)and your selfesteem and secondly, it will make you get a better body.
Good luck!