Longhornjok: I'm with Monstro (again!). I don't think it's "in vogue" - I think thickness is considered a big plus with women, unless, as Gig mentioned, it's just too darn thick. One woman told me, other considerations aside, she would get more pleasure with a guy who has a shorter, thicker tool, than a longer, thinner tool. Luckily for her, she didn't have to choose with me. ;D