Very well endowed male virgin looking for advice for the first time

[deleted936015]

Tbh man, your better off directing you attention elsewere

This seems like to much effort that may fall flat!!

 

[deleted936015]

What the fuck how did i miss the thread title alll this time!
Thats made my day

 

[rtg]

I'm not friend zoned, she definitely is attracted to me but isn't sure what to do. She stares at my bulge, watches me, acts really shy and blushes etc. I'm going to ask one more time soon though, I think that will let her know I'm still interested.

As has been pointed out to you many times before:
- Despite you thinking that every woman you come across is staring at your bulge, this is probably not actually what they are doing.
- women and men can just be friends
- being shy and blushing can often mean that people are just shy and / or introverted. It's not a sure sign that someone is into you.
- women can find men attractive physically but still only like them as friends. It works the other way around too.
- you can't just assume every woman you speak to wants to bang or date you... especially if you haven't even spoke about it.

People with experience are actually giving you good advice. Why do you keep asking for advice and then dismissing it? Just because it's not want to want to hear? Are you just seeking attention? You're not always going to hear what you want and you're not always going to get what you want. That's called life.

 

[sangheili90]

Tbh man, your better off directing you attention elsewere

This seems like to much effort that may fall flat!!

I have 2 options

1. Just totally give up and later regret doing this and saying "what could have been"
or
2. Continue to persist with someone I genuinely like and know is attracted to me, with the possible result of her being in my life. If I fail at least I can say I tried and not feel like a total loser because I didn't go for what I wanted.

I'll go with option 2, nothing in life comes easy and without work, if I had given up or taken the easy route on other pursuits of mine I'd not be where I am at today.

I shouldn't have to explain this, but you might have a totally different outlook on life than I do.

 

[rtg]

If you go with option 2 please stop pretending to ask for advice because apparently you have it all figured out anyway.

 

[deleted936015]

Well heres how i see it.
If u wanna know if shes into i, ask her. Bam instant answer, stop dancin around it.
Just because shes shy and smiles at u doesnt mean she wants that from u!

If she wanted you.... shed have you by know....

Do as you wish man, and i hope it does work out.

But putting all ur eggs in 1 basket rarely pans out

 

[693987]

With OPs post history taken into account, even with him knowing this woman has a long distance boyfriend, and him pursuing her, if she does decide to get with OP and cheats/dumps OP for someone else, it will just be another blemish on womankind as a whole. Just like Western/USA women are all terrible

 

[rtg]

With OPs post history taken into account, even with him knowing this woman has a long distance boyfriend, and him pursuing her, if she does decide to get with OP and cheats/dumps OP for someone else, it will just be another blemish on womankind as a whole. Just like Western/USA women are all terrible

Then he will add Mexican to women to his Hate List

 

[sangheili90]

Well heres how i see it.
If u wanna know if shes into i, ask her. Bam instant answer, stop dancin around it.
Just because shes shy and smiles at u doesnt mean she wants that from u!

If she wanted you.... shed have you by know....

Do as you wish man, and i hope it does work out.

But putting all ur eggs in 1 basket rarely pans out

Without getting into personal details with her, this past couple weeks hasn't been a good time to be asking her out on dates and what not. She is obviously attracted to me, but I need to remind her that I am in fact still interested as a potential suitor, since it was 2 months ago when I asked her out.

 

[sangheili90]

Well heres how i see it.
If u wanna know if shes into i, ask her. Bam instant answer, stop dancin around it.
Just because shes shy and smiles at u doesnt mean she wants that from u!

If she wanted you.... shed have you by know....

Do as you wish man, and i hope it does work out.

But putting all ur eggs in 1 basket rarely pans out

If you saw our interactions and/or if I made a very detailed description of them you'd understand where I'm coming from. I don't really expect you to have a reached a solid conclusion based on nothing but very abbreviated written descriptions.

 

[deleted936015]

Ok, well... next given chance, hit her up see what happens.

Dancing round the subject like school kids will get you know were.

This subjects done than *hi5s to all contributors*

 

[sangheili90]

Ok, well... next given chance, hit her up see what happens.

Dancing round the subject like school kids will get you know were.

This subjects done than *hi5s to all contributors*

I just said that she has been dealing with personal issues lately and that this isn't the time to be asking her out. But yes, you are right in that I do need to make a move soon, that was my mistake last semester.

 

[deleted936015]

Hence i said given chance...

 

[sangheili90]

Hence i said given chance...

If this all works out like I'm hoping I'll be glad I didn't follow through with that escort idea.

 

[deleted936015]

Use the force....

 

[TexanStar]

I'm hoping I'll be glad I didn't follow through with that escort idea.

What were you going to hire an escort for? Just to see what sex was like?

 

[sangheili90]

Its time, you goto a brothel and get it over and done with.....

Pay the cash, have sex with a pro who will have zero dramas taking all of you as u do whatever it is u do.

I wanted to share this with you, as this is what the sites with escort ads are like in this area. About 2 months ago I was checking through that page, and there were dozens of legitimate professional women on there with reviews but it's been censored for about a month now.

http://tucson.backpage.com/classifieds/Censored

 

[Neller]

I'm a possible threat to her current relationship and I'm an unknown individual who is not a guaranteed thing, unlike the bf. Many of the Mexicans that are in my school by and large only associate with their tight knit community, which is typical for humans to do as we like what we are most comfortable with. I'm an outsider and therefore a very uncertain prospect for her, so in a way I'm "dangerous".

Wtf did I just read?

 

[TexanStar]

Wtf did I just read?

Dangerous!

 

[rtg]