Viagra

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  1. D_Thithians Boatleg

    D_Thithians Boatleg New Member

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    As a women do/would you find it blood boiling if your fella is using the blue pill to get himself aroused??

    The reason I ask is I'm having problems to get it up for sex & I'm tempted to go to my doctor and ask for help in getting it up.
     
  2. cbrmale

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    Not a woman, but at your age I would have a physical check-up if you are having erection difficulties. Erection problems at age 29, if physical, would most likely indicate some underlying serious ailment.

    If your erection problems are psychological, then viagra is not likely to help much, except that it may put you in a positive frame of mind.

    For ED treatment, Cialis is my drug of choice. Because of it's long half-life, 36 hours, it is particularly effective if used semi-regularly, every few days. If taken every three days, men with genuine physical ED will find themselves ready to have sex at any time with the appopriate level of arousement. That is, it builds up in a man's system to the point where he is capable without the need to plan to take a tablet, and wait a while for it to work. Also, Viagra doesn't work with food or alcohol in a man's system, so it is very restrictive in this regard. Cialis is not affected by either.
     
  3. helgaleena

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    You are too young to have a leigimate health reason to take Viagra. If somebody is pressuring you to have sex and your body doesn't want to, listen to your body. Get a full physical and take a vacation from the intercourse. You can be pleased without getting it up, or didn't you know that?

    Even men my age (50's) often find the dosage hard to manage and have to take part of a pill or else they can't relax! One of my bf's took a pill, confessed it later when he couldn't stop that night even though I was completely exhausted. I told him about Piers Anthony. He's 80 and publicly blogged that one quarter of a tablet was all he required.

    Stop pushing yourself into the sack, young thing.
     
  4. EllieP

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    If my husband had a physical problem and drugs could help him overcome them I would not be offended at all. In fact, I would feel awful if he thought that I would be.
     
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    That's true, Elliep, I did not inquire whether the OP is married...
     
  6. voidout

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    i'd be all for it. who wants someone who becomes completely defeated when there are options out there that can help? the fact that a man would swallow his pride (ha...ha...) in order to keep our sex life going is actually kind of sexy.

    i'd follow the other advice, and make sure to get checked out.
     
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    Get yourself checked out but then go for it.

    Some women dream of a guy who could have a 6 hour erection.
     
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    I would definitely get a check up first. Then if there is a need for viagra,/cialis, etc., an you were willing to use it, I would feel honored that you thought enough of me to try to do something about an ED issue.
     
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    High blood pressure can cause erection/sexual dysfunction in both sexes. Viagra was originally a test drug being use for high blood pressure and the side effect was erections in men who otherwise werent able to get them anymore.

    So i dont care how old he is, if he needs help with his getting an erection by all means seek the help for it.

    I was no longer able to have orgasms as a female when my high blood pressure problems started. Once i started the medication i was able to orgasm again. And i am 29.
     
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    No, of course I wouldn't be offended.
     
  11. D_Thithians Boatleg

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    Thanks for the reply guys - much appreciated :)
     
  12. need2bsexy2

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    Dear Praying Mantis:

    Thank you for your response. The honesty and clearlity is, to me, astonishing. I am happy with your resolution of your problem and wish you many happy returns in the future. I hope that your solution may indicate a path for others to follow.
     
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