It drives me fucking mad and horny also when the top hold/pushes the bottom by the back of the neck, or in doggystyle, lifting the skull by grabbing the front of the neck and pulling towards him
John Despe is very hot top that loves to shut the bottom up with the hand. I've seen also Colby Keller iirc, with Dale Cooper in Cockyboys. and John Strap from Blakemason uses his hands in almost all the videos