I am a 23 year old male virgin looking for some advice. Despite my extreme shyness (which I'm sure plays a huge role in this) I've always had plenty of women interested in me. And yes I have had a lot of opportunities to have sex over the past couple years. Despite all of my opportunites I always seem to blow it when it gets to the point of sex. I tend to be insanely passive and usually don't make the move when necessary, thus I've had a lot of sexless nights with women in my bed. One of the most recent opportunites and closest I've ever got to having sex I couldn't even get it up because of my anxiety. I'm really at the breaking point here, I kind of just wanna have sex with anyone at this point and get it over with. Has anyone ever dealt with a similar situation and if so how did you deal with it?