smartguy101: Hey Guys. I have a friend who I have been dating for the past few months. We haven't had sex yet because he has a large penis and I haven't been with another man before. We're trying to make this last, but we can't figure out what to do. When I say big, I mean in the sense of girth. 9 x 7.5in. cut. Even with lube, we've had problems with anal sex. We spent 1 hour working just to get me used to the head of his penis. Is this how it is supposed to be normally? We like each other waaay too much to throw this chance away so I have time for replies. We're being patient. Any guys have any advice? It would really do us ALOT of good. SEE YA !!!