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What are some stereotypes about virgins? Positive, negative, etc.
How does a guy think/feel when he meets a virgin w/a dirty mind?
 

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What are some stereotypes about virgins? Positive, negative, etc.
How does a guy think/feel when he meets a virgin w/a dirty mind?

The first thing that goes through my mind with a virgin w/a dirty mind:

Is she ready to commit?


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I've encountered a few virgins on the net, they're often possessed of an extremely filthy mind, I think because they don't have any real experience of sex their fantasies aren't informed by reality.
 
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The first thing that goes through my mind with a virgin w/a dirty mind:

Is she ready to commit? lafever
That's what goes through your mind? I would think most guys would think that a virgin who lets it be known she has a dirty mind is a cock tease.

I've encountered a few virgins on the net, they're often possessed of an extremely filthy mind, I think because they don't have any real experience of sex their fantasies aren't informed by reality.

I think that is true as well. Our own dear Crissy Snow comes to mind and that mindboggling incident a few months ago where she asked a man she didn't know to show her his penis in a supermarket because she had never seen one before. :eek::confused:
 

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I kind of have to agree with lafever on this. I have a few female friends who've mentioned such a thing at one time or another and it always makes me think, is it because she has morals and is waiting for the right person or is she just not mentally ready for such an adventure.

Then I realize I have no idea, because I too am in the same positions as her.

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That's what goes through your mind? I would think most guys would think that a virgin who lets it be known she has a dirty mind is a cock tease.



I think that is true as well. Our own dear Crissy Snow comes to mind and that mindboggling incident a few months ago where she asked a man she didn't know to show her his penis in a supermarket because she had never seen one before. :eek::confused:


Can't believe you remember that..... I didn't know better
 

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We all remember that crissy :)

I think it's important that you try to think of virginity as neither a positive or a negative, some girls seem to feel they should hold on to it against all odds and some girls seem to feel they should get rid of it with the first guy they meet who's going to drop his drawers. Virginity isn't some magical barrier that somehow separates you from being in a childlike state and being an adult, you won't really feel any different day to day not being a virgin so take your time, wait for a guy you're comfortable with and who cares enough for you to want to make it good for you.
 

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well im a virgin, so from my perspective a girl whos a virgin is a positive thing, cuz from the point of view of a virgin, planning o have sex with someone who has had it before makes me a bit nervous cuz I am new at it and wouldnt know exactly what to do. Its the same idea of people looking at doing other things for the first time, like the first day at a new skool or sumthin (haha kind of a bad analogy there)
 

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A lot of people look at it from the other perspective, if you want to be shown how to do something only someone who can do it can show you. Whenever and whoever you do it with I think it is important (old fashioned as it might sound) that it's with someone you care about.
 

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A lot of people look at it from the other perspective, if you want to be shown how to do something only someone who can do it can show you. Whenever and whoever you do it with I think it is important (old fashioned as it might sound) that it's with someone you care about.

well thanx, and i am waitin for that "special" girl to come along, but we all know how hard that is to find
 

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From a female point i loved my ex being a virgin. I knew it meant that i got to teach him the right way to have sex and how to please a woman. And yes he did have a VERY dirty mind but the problem was a lot of if was derived from what porn he'd seen and was very unrealistic
 

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What are some stereotypes about virgins? Positive, negative, etc.
How does a guy think/feel when he meets a virgin w/a dirty mind?

well a negative steroytpe is that she isn't going to know what to do
a possitive one is that she will be very tight

how does a guy think well I know that I respect a girl who remained a virgin till she found someone she cared about. I don't disrespect women who arn't virgins or anything, but I don't like if the girl is slutty, that I find depressing actually. a virgin w/a dirty mind, usually he probubly thinks yippee!!!!

*not to pry but are you asking cus your a virgin?*
 

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I wuldn't do it in public tho, never know when a child might come around or whatever
I'm a gentleman!